Ep. 73 - Moving Through Ruts and Finding Peace - The Process with Actress Paige Patterson

“I just felt light. So that’s something I’m really trying to embody all the time now; if it’s heavy, just ditch it. Trust.” - Paige

“Peace only comes when you deal with your darkness. Peace only comes when you are at peace with the whole of yourself.” - Paige

“Don’t deny the fact that you are the creator of your life, that you have more control than you think you do. Things are not happening to you. Make decisions, make changes, and get clear on what you want your life to look like. Then get to work but also have patience.” - Paige

Today’s episode is a wonderful celebration of surrendering to the peace of the process. Lacy sits down with actress Paige Patterson to talk about her experience and journey with the work, and how she navigated through the biggest rock bottom in her life as well as her two-year rut. They talk about Paige’s childhood, her earliest manifestation, and how she worked through the process to find peace during magic darks, ruts, and rock bottoms. Paige also offers advice for creatives, entrepreneurs and artists moving through the work.

In This Episode We Talk About:

• Lacy’s holiday celebrations
• Updates on Lacy’s protocol
• Paige’s cultural upbringing and background
• The effects of Paige’s parents’ divorce on her growing up
• Paige’s earliest gift of manifestation as a child
• Paige’s primal triad and human design
• The beginning of her acting path
• How her drama teacher served as an early expander
• The events that led to her moving to New York
• What was going on during her rock bottom and how this affected her
  ego and self-worth
• The importance of Shadow work for actors especially
• How she manifested her move to LA
• The lowest point of her rock bottom
• Some of the moments that snapper her to reality to get out of her
  rock bottom
• The disconnect between having a day job and having your identity
  wrapped up in that day job, rather than running the marathon of your
  career
• Paige’s list process as a specific manifestor
• How figuring out her authentic code has helped her manifestation
• The work around leaving New York and manifesting California
• What she is trying to call in now
• The energetics that have come around trusting acting as a means of
  stability
• The pivotal changes that helped Paige develop her trust muscle
• Approaching situations from your most magnetic self
• What self-worth means to Paige now
• Where Paige is currently at in the process and what that looks like
• Finding peace in a magic dark
• Energetics around being an artist
• Advice for creatives, entrepreneurs, and artists
• The patterns Paige notices right before things come through
• Preparation for 2020
• Curating and utilizing social media
• Advice for people who are in their deepest ruts right now

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• To Be Magnetic
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• Newsletter
• The Pathway
• A la Carte Workshops
• DRE Challenge
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• Lacy Phillips Live: The Manifestation Tour (use code MEMBER for $15
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• Free Clarity Exercise
• Newsletter



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In The Episode

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• Karen Hurd Protocol
• Unique Hammond
• Reishi Almond Milk Nog
• Dani Beinstein
• The Artist’s Way

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