126: The "Advanced" Secrets of Effective Communication

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Learning to use the Five Secrets skillfully requires strong motivation and lots of practice, but the benefits can be tremendous. The Five Secrets have transformed my clinical work as well as my personal and professional relationships. And they've also had a huge impact on my teaching.

But there are even more communication techniques that can be immensely helpful. In this podcast, we discuss three advanced techniques:

  1. Changing the Focus. This technique can be tremendously helpful when there's an "elephant" in the room.
  2. Multiple Choice Empathy. This technique can be transformative when you're trying to connect with a teenager, friend or loved one who refuses to talk to you.
  3. Positive Reframing. This technique can be invaluable when you're fighting with a colleague, patient, friend or family member, and you're both feeling frustrated, angry, and upset.

David emphasizes that these techniques may look easy, but they are actually difficult to learn and require lots of practice as well as the mindset of humility, as well as a strong desire to develop a more loving relationships with the person you're not getting along with.

People who are serious about learning can read Feeling Good Together and do the written exercises while you read!

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Feel Better Today: A Powerful App For You

Feel Better Today: A Powerful App For You

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492: Meet the Fantastic—and Controversial—Dr. David Healy

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Meet the Fantastic—and Controversial—Dr. David Healy Psychiatric Drug Companies-- What Are They NOT Telling Us? Today, we are thrilled to interview the famed and courageous Dr. David Healy. I have adm...

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Feel Better Fast: A Short Message from Dr. Burns

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Download the amazing Feeling Great app today for FREE at FeelingGreat.com! This is my $99 GIFT for you.  – Dr. David Burns

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489: Meet Richard Lam, Master TEAM CBT Teacher and Therapist

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If You're Procrastinating Right Now, Listen to This

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Let's face it. We ALL procrastinate. Attempts to "help" nearly always backfire. Dr. David Burns gets it. Procrastinators don't want help — they want something that actually works. In his upcoming free...

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488: Meet the Incredible Dr. David Antonuccio, Part 2 of 2

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