The Chris Voss Show Podcast – Bleu Jour Booth Interview CES Show 2022

Matchmaking Magic: How Leslie Wardman Connects High-Achieving Singles Ambiancematchmaking.com About the Guest(s): Leslie Wardman is the founder and driving force behind Ambiance Matchmaking, a boutique firm dedicated to creating meaningful connections for accomplished professionals across the globe. With a career spanning over two decades, Leslie's expertise in matchmaking is underpinned by her deep understanding of human behavior and relationship dynamics. Her commitment to bridging cultural gaps has made Ambiance Matchmaking a leader in specialized matchmaking services, particularly for South Asian professionals. Her innovative approach and impressive track record of successful matches have earned her firm a spot among the top 10 matchmaking services in the world. Episode Summary: In this enlightening episode of The Chris Voss Show, Chris welcomes Leslie Wardman, the acclaimed founder of Ambiance Matchmaking, to discuss the intricacies of modern matchmaking and the dynamics of human relationships. Leslie shares her journey from navigating post-divorce life to establishing one of the world's premier matchmaking firms. With her extensive experience in the industry, she offers valuable insights into the evolving landscape of dating and the significance of aligning values and cultural traditions in successful matchmaking. Throughout the episode, Leslie delves into the unique challenges and opportunities presented by the digital age in dating, including the impact of dating apps and option overload. She emphasizes the importance of finding wholesome individuals and maintaining traditional values while navigating contemporary relationship dynamics. The conversation also explores the company's international expansion, including their presence in Dubai and other major cities, illustrating Ambiance Matchmaking's global reach and influence in the matchmaking industry. Key Takeaways: Leslie Wardman has helped thousands of people find meaningful connections through her personalized and hands-on approach to matchmaking. Ambiance Matchmaking has expanded globally, offering services in major cities like New York, Miami, and Dubai, focusing on aligning love with tradition. The rise of digital dating has transformed relationship dynamics, emphasizing the need for genuine connections amidst 'option overload.' Values alignment plays a crucial role in successful matchmaking, as evidenced by the low divorce rates among Leslie's matched couples. The podcast showcases Leslie's expertise in tailoring matchmaking services to individual needs, from young professionals to those restarting post-divorce. Notable Quotes: "I've interviewed more than 30,000 people in my career, and I look at that like getting a PhD every year." "We started in a certain place and we've just kept raising the bar as we go." "Women are very much becoming so independent and excelling, you know, becoming engineers and all that kind of stuff." "Typically, the American families that we work with, they're very family-oriented and respectful." "Back to my secret sauce and how important that is—out of all the marriages that we've gotten together, we've only had one or two divorces."

11 Nov 19min

Overcoming Toxicity: Amy Pease's Journey to Healing and Empowerment Passionfrompain.com About the Guest(s): Amy Pease is a multifaceted professional known for her resilience and determination to overcome a traumatic upbringing to become an inspirational figure. Raised in a manipulative and abusive adoptive family, she emerged as a beacon of hope, striving to empower others facing similar challenges. Amy is a coach, mentor, keynote speaker, podcast host, and content creator on her platform, Passion from Pain. She offers courses like "Finding Strength After Toxicity," providing guidance for individuals navigating life after toxic experiences. Her upcoming book is set to launch in February 2026, which will further delve into strategies for overcoming manipulation and mental abuse. Episode Summary: In this emotionally charged episode of The Chris Voss Show, Chris Voss sits down with Amy Pease, a survivor of a challenging upbringing, to discuss her extraordinary journey from the depths of toxicity to becoming a powerhouse of empowerment and change. Amy unveils the narrative of her past—a tale of overcoming adversity to inspire others through her multifaceted career as a coach, mentor, and speaker. During this engaging episode, Amy discusses her soon-to-be-released book, "Finding Strength After Toxicity," which offers a roadmap for those overcoming toxic environments. The episode captures Amy's transformation from enduring manipulation within her adoptive family to building a successful career. She shares how she eventually overcame her struggles with depression and anxiety, regained control of her life, and now aids others through her podcast and courses. Themes of self-accountability, resilience, and personal growth are explored. Chris Voss engages with Amy in a dialogue that goes beyond her story; together, they shed light on the intricacies of coping mechanisms and strategies for liberation from toxic ties. This engaging conversation is a beacon of hope and a manual of empowerment for listeners who may find themselves in similar situations. Key Takeaways: Amy shares her journey of escaping an emotionally abusive adoptive family and the steps she took to rebuild her life independently. The importance of recognizing non-physical forms of abuse, such as manipulation and financial control, and how to plan an escape from these situations. The power of community and support in overcoming adversity, as experienced by Amy when she started anew as a single mother. How self-accountability can be a driving force in personal healing and transformation after toxic experiences. A sneak peek into Amy's upcoming book, "Finding Strength After Toxicity," which serves as a guide for people breaking free from toxic environments. Notable Quotes: "You change your situation, and all of this goes away." - A pivotal moment of realization for Amy that inspired her transformation. "I had major depression, anxiety, a lot of shame, guilt that I was dealing with… it took me 20 years to get over it." - Amy highlighting the long-term effects of her circumstances. "If I stayed with these people, it was going to kill me, and my son would end up being raised by them." - Amy on her decision to leave her manipulative family. "There's somebody walking the path or has already walked it and they can help." - Amy emphasizing the importance of shared experiences and support. "The difference between self-accountability versus self-blame… it's the difference between making it or not." - On the critical nature of accountability in personal growth.

10 Nov 30min

Version 1.0.0 Things To Remember Before I Forget: My Plan for My Care by Niki Tucker, Jenna Tucker https://www.amazon.com/Things-Remember-Before-Forget-Plan/dp/1643889370 Things to Remember Before I Forget is a journal for people on the path of aging who seek a more comfortable, happy life. By identifying options that reflect your individual desires, this book empowers you to create a plan of care on your own terms. If you or a loved one are dealing with a diagnosis of dementia, this journal also offers prompts to record the things that are most important to you, along with your preferences for care, so there will be no need for guesswork when it is time for the family or a care partner to assist you. Written by Niki and Jenna Tucker, a mother and daughter team with more than twenty-three combined years of experience working in the field of senior care and memory care, Things to Remember Before I Forget is a thoughtful companion to help you achieve the best quality of living in the later stages of life.About the author Niki Tucker holds a master's degree in social work, and is a licensed social worker and certified care manager. She runs a senior services agency in Portland Oregon, providing in home care and care management to vulnerable adults. She and her daughter Jenna Tucker, a CNA, wrote this journal together to help people plan ahead for their own care needs.

9 Nov 35min

Unbroken: Life Outside The Lines by Adriene Caldwell https://www.amazon.com/Unbroken-Outside-Lines-Adriene-Caldwell-ebook/dp/B0FL7SY9VT Unbrokencaldwell.com Unbroken: Life Outside the Lines is a raw, unflinching memoir that exposes the devastating impact of abuse, mental illness, and systemic failure, while illuminating the extraordinary resilience of the human spirit. Adriene Caldwell bares her soul, recounting her journey through a childhood marked by relentless trauma—emotional, physical, and sexual—yet also moments of tender connection and hard-won hope. This is not just a story of survival but of transformation, as Adriene confronts her past with courage and dares to envision a future beyond the chaos. Every page is infused with brutal honesty and an undercurrent of fierce determination, pulling readers into a world where despair and hope coexist. For anyone who has ever felt broken, this memoir is a reminder: we are not defined by our pain; we are shaped by our ability to rise, Unbroken.

9 Nov 31min

Maximize Your Business Tax Savings with Expert Tips from Douglas Carpenter Books4hospitality.com About the Guest(s): Douglas Carpenter is a seasoned financial expert with over 40 years of experience in the industry. As a Certified Public Accountant (CPA) and Chartered Financial Analyst (CFA), Douglas started his career as the youngest registered stockbroker in America at the age of 17. He has worked at a top four accounting firm and held various consulting and chief financial officer roles. Currently, Douglas owns and operates Comprehensive Accounting Solutions, providing a full spectrum of accounting services, particularly for small businesses and the hospitality sector. Episode Summary: In this engaging episode of The Chris Voss Show, Chris talks with Douglas Carpenter, a renowned CPA and CFA, about smart financial strategies for businesses as the year-end approaches. Douglas shares his extensive knowledge on tax-saving tactics, business accounting, and financial planning, aiming to help business owners maximize their tax returns and keep more money in their pockets. As tax season looms on the horizon, Douglas's expert advice is especially pertinent. Throughout the conversation, Douglas delves into various strategies for minimizing tax liabilities, discussing everything from different business structures like S Corps and C Corps to the importance of understanding cash flow and business accounting. He offers insights into how businesses can leverage opportunities for tax deductions, highlighting the need for strategic financial planning throughout the year. The importance of having a knowledgeable tax advisor is also emphasized, with Douglas warning against the risks of poorly managed finances and tax filings. Key Takeaways: End-of-Year Tax Strategies: Business owners should focus on maximizing their tax efficiency before the end of the year, utilizing strategies such as HSA contributions, equipment purchases, and appropriate salary distributions. Business Structure Insights: Choosing the right business structure (e.g., S Corp, C Corp) is crucial for tax efficiency and should align with your overall financial strategy. Professional Financial Advice: Engage a qualified CPA for expert financial advice and ensure you are not overpaying on taxes. Relying on professional help can unveil potential savings. Importance of Documentation: Meticulous record-keeping and proper documentation of business expenses are essential and can lead to significant savings if managed correctly. Cash Flow Management: Douglas highlights the critical nature of cash flow management for businesses, asserting that understanding and predicting cash flow are crucial for sustaining and growing a business. Notable Quotes: "Billionaires do pay taxes. They don't overpay taxes. You shouldn't overpay your taxes either." "What are you going to do different next quarter that you didn't do this quarter?" "Fulfill your obligations, but don’t pay more than you absolutely have to. There's a lot more that people leave on the table than they realize." "Don't cheat on your taxes. It’s not worth the risk when you can save in legal ways." "Cash flow is the lifeline of any business. Knowing where your business stands today and where it's headed is crucial."

9 Nov 25min

Mary Had a Little Lamb by Adrian M Hurtado https://www.amazon.com/Mary-Little-Lamb-Adrian-Hurtado/dp/1647498600 The celebration of Christmas has nothing to do with a fictional character in a red suit, or flying reindeer. It is about the birth and life of Jesus Christ. He is the true reason for the season. Now you can read about His life in an illustrated and poetic form that touches on many of the important aspects of His life. Parents will want to share this story with their children and with their friends.About the author Adrian M. Hurtado was born in Berkeley, CA and raised in the East Bay area. He is a former teacher and principal, having served more than 25 years in schools in Orange County, Los Angeles County, and Santa Barbara County, California. He always enjoyed working with students and in finding ways to make learning interesting and fun. Now he seeks to carry on that delight through books that students can enjoy and their parents can enjoy reading to them and with them. Adrian also served in the Marine Corps and Air Force Reserve, retiring at the rank of Major. He and his wife, Jean, a former kindergarten teacher and his biggest encourager, have retired to the little beach town of Cayucos, CA where he is actively involved in community service.

7 Nov 22min

Healthy. Happy. Whole.: A Health and Wellbeing Workbook by Barbara A Palmer https://www.amazon.com/Healthy-Happy-Whole-Wellbeing-Workbook/dp/1685561233https://www.bplifecoachingservices.com/ If you have a deep desire to grow your happiness and overall wellbeing, where would you start? You may be surprised to learn the best place to start is not where you expected but is easy to access. Your journey to new levels of aliveness awaits you as you read this book and navigate twelve steps towards a greater mind-body connection and a prosperous soul. ONE: maximize your awareness and set SMART goals TWO: clarify wellness and wellbeing THREE: stress management FOUR: stress management self-assessment FIVE: explore negatively charged emotions like depression SIX: differences between depression and grief or loss SEVEN: your relational support system EIGHT: support system development NINE: assertiveness TEN: coaching, counseling; facts, myths, and fiction ELEVEN: reassess, review, and realign TWELVE: prayers and affirmations.

6 Nov 25min

Tennessee Thunder: A Tale of Two Armies by Daniel F Korn https://www.amazon.com/Tennessee-Thunder-Tale-Two-Armies/dp/195919786X https://ayrpresents.com/ Everyone has heard of Gettysburg, but for sheer ferocity of fighting, it is tough to match the horrendous stories of what happened in the fight for Tennessee in the battles of Stones River and Chickamauga. This is the story of two very different armies, and their equally different commanders. The Union Army of the Cumberland, led by the charismatic, but excitable William Starke Rosecrans against the Confederate Army of Tennessee, and its hot-tempered and irascible commander; Braxton Bragg. As 1862 ends, and the birth of a new year of the war looms on the horizon, an end to the bloodletting is nowhere in sight. It was a year that had just seen the April horrific fight at Shiloh, the incredible ineptness of McClellan in the Peninsula /Seven Days Campaign, the September bloodbath known as Antietam, and President Lincoln's launch of a huge gamble in the Emancipation Proclamation, all followed by the near disaster for the Union at Fredericksburg. It would be followed by a year that would see death, destruction, and a level of ferocity in warfare on a scale never before seen on the American continent. Of all the major battles of the Civil War, Stones River had the highest percentage of casualties on both sides. Although the battle itself was inconclusive, the Union Army's repulse of two Confederate attacks and the subsequent Confederate withdrawal were a much-needed boost to Union morale after the defeat at the Battle of Fredericksburg. It dashed Confederate aspirations for control of Middle Tennessee. Names such as the Dragons Teeth, Slaughter Pen, the Round Forest, and the Orphans Brigade would enter the American lexicon. The battle was very important to Union morale, as evidenced by Abraham Lincoln's letter to General Rosecrans: "You gave us a hard-earned victory, which had there been a defeat instead, the nation could scarcely have lived over." The Confederate threat to Kentucky and Middle Tennessee was gone, and Nashville was secure as a major Union supply base for the rest of the war.

5 Nov 36min