277: The Authority Gap Women Face and What to Do About It with Mary Ann Sieghart

I’m going to start this podcast with a bit of a controversial question: Why do we (and, yes, I said we) often feel much more uncomfortable having a woman in a position of authority than we do men?

My guest Mary Ann Sieghart is a London-based journalist and broadcaster and author of the new book “The Authority Gap: Why women are still taken less seriously than men, and what we can do about it.”

The authority gap isn’t just a challenge of how men see women but also how we as women see other women in positions of power and authority.

As women we have to go beyond “lip service feminism” - it’s important that we are aware of our own biases so we can correct them. Think about some of the choices you make, from the books you read to the television broadcasters you listen to. How many are women?

This is a wide-ranging and important conversation about why women have struggled to get into more leadership positions, from companies to governments, and even when they do, why they’re taken less seriously.

In this episode, Mary Ann and I talk about:

• Why she felt compelled to write her book and how she defines the authority gap
• Why it isn’t just about getting more women in senior leadership roles
• The awkward interaction between Mary McAleese, President of Ireland, and Pope John Paul II that’s a perfect example of the authority gap
• Why we shouldn’t mistake confidence for competence and how likability and warmth affect women leaders
• What surprised Mary Ann about the research she found - and what made her optimistic
• The types of public speaking that Mary Ann enjoys

About My Guest: Mary Ann Sieghart is a London-based journalist and broadcaster who has worked for the Times, the Independent, the Economist, the Financial Times, and the BBC. Her new book is called “The Authority Gap: Why women are still taken less seriously than men, and what we can do about it.” She researched this book as a Visiting Fellow of All Souls College, University of Oxford.

About Us: The Speaking Your Brand podcast is hosted by Carol Cox. At Speaking Your Brand, we help women entrepreneurs and professionals clarify their brand message and story, create their signature talks, and develop their thought leadership platforms. Our mission is to get more women in positions of influence and power because it's through women's stories, voices, and visibility that we challenge the status quo and change existing systems. Check out our coaching programs at https://www.speakingyourbrand.com.

Links:

Show notes at https://www.speakingyourbrand.com/277/

Get Mary Ann’s book “The Authority Gap”: https://www.maryannsieghart.com/the-authority-gap/

Download our FREE workbook on how to position yourself as a thought leader: https://www.speakingyourbrand.com/guide/.

Schedule a consult call with us to talk about creating your signature talk and thought leadership platform: https://www.speakingyourbrand.com/contact.

Connect on LinkedIn:

• Carol Cox = https://www.linkedin.com/in/carolcox
• Mary Ann Sieghart (guest) = https://www.linkedin.com/in/mary-ann-sieghart-17a27891/

Related Podcast Episodes:

• Episode 92: Deconstructing My TEDx Talk: Why We’re Uncomfortable with Women in Power with Carol Cox
• Episode 162: Why We're #ChoosingWomensVoices - and You Should Too
• Episode 163: A Feminist Approach to Public Speaking with Carol Cox
• Episode 241: The Expert Trap: What Holds Women Back from Thought Leadership with Carol Cox

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