S12 Ep. 4: I'm Not Attracted to My Overweight Wife, He Hates My 'Trick,' and Why Can't I Orgasm with Her?

S12 Ep. 4: I'm Not Attracted to My Overweight Wife, He Hates My 'Trick,' and Why Can't I Orgasm with Her?

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:


1) I am a straight man and have had a few long-term relationships in my life. Although I enjoy sex, I never ejaculate during intercourse. I am now 50. I can orgasm with intense fantasy and oral sex, but never during penetration. I have read about sensate focus, but are there other options? I am fit and healthy and have no problems ejaculating while masturbating.


2) My wife has put on a lot of weight and I’m simply not attracted to her anymore. I’m struggling to get an erection when she initiates sex, and rarely initiate myself. I still love her very much, but this is clearly a problem. How do I deal with this? She keeps asking me if I think she is fat and I keep saying no, but she’s probably twice the size she was when we first met.


3) I always thought my oral sex skills were second to none, but it’s clear my new partner isn’t impressed. I know I’m being childish, but I feel hurt. Why did it work on everyone but him? And what do I do now? I only know one way.


To have Tracey and Kelsey discuss YOUR secret sex question, enter it anonymously at https://bit.ly/3C4AelU


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S15 Ep.9: Men Faking, Women Not Reciprocating, and Should I Warn Lovers My Penis Is Small?

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S15 Ep. 8: High Libido, Quiet Sex, and Power Games

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In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) My wife has an extremely high libido. I know that sounds like every man’s dream, but it’s not. My sex drive has never been...

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S15 Ep. 7: Routine Sex, Lost Erections, and Why Don't I Fantasize About My Partner?

S15 Ep. 7: Routine Sex, Lost Erections, and Why Don't I Fantasize About My Partner?

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) My partner does the same moves in the same order every single time we have sex. How do I break the routine without bruisin...

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S15 Ep. 6: Faking, Filming, and Family's Effect on Sex Life

S15 Ep. 6: Faking, Filming, and Family's Effect on Sex Life

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I have just found out my wife fakes her orgasms sometimes. We’ve been together for seven years. She recently asked me if w...

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S15 Ep. 5: Solo Orgasms, Sex Clubs, and 'Efficient' Sex

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) Why do orgasms feel so much better when you’re on your own? When it’s just me and my vibrator, they are consistently inten...

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S15 Ep. 4: STI Testing Etiquette, Staying Interested Post Orgasm, and Do I Deserve an Affair?

S15 Ep. 4: STI Testing Etiquette, Staying Interested Post Orgasm, and Do I Deserve an Affair?

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I’ve been married a long time and our kids are about to graduate—the pressure is finally off. I’m as happy as you can be w...

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