Ep. 342 - Top Tips for Self-love, Manifesting Love, & a Deeper Connection with Your Partner

Tis the season of manifesting deeper love and more aligned relationships. And as Lacy points out, mid-winter brings new light, new hope, and new growth. Whether you’re happily single, searching for new love, or manifesting a closer relationship (or a million other versions of love!) this is the perfect time to let a little more light into your life. We love this day because while, yes, commercially there is a lot of programming, we consider it just the perfect time to look inward and reflect on all your relationships. This episode with Janelle, Lacy, and Jessica holds so many pearls of wisdom that will help you on whatever journey you find yourself on when it comes to manifesting love. When is a “spark” healthy versus a nervous system trigger? Are we speaking to ourselves internally with the love we are seeking? Are you falling for the Disney love myth? You don’t have to wait for someone to take you to the restaurant you’re dying to go to for love to find you. You are the architect of your love life, and it starts with the foundation of authenticity. Your love journey starts with you here and now. Just press play.

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In This Episode We Talk About:

• Current energetics surrounding love, intimacy, and relationships
• How self-worth impacts your ability to manifest love
• The problem with fairy-tale love and cultural narratives
• Intimacy tolerance: why healthy relationships can feel unfamiliar
• How to identify and clear blocks to love in your subconscious
• The role of childhood dynamics in shaping relationship patterns
• Why self-love is the foundation of every healthy relationship
• Reframing love languages to better connect with yourself
• Recognizing when it’s time to stay and do the work or leave a relationship
• Tips for creating deeper intimacy in friendships and partnerships
• How societal trends on relationships reveal collective wounds
• The importance of aligning with your authentic essence in relationships
• Using expanders to visualize and attract aligned partnerships

THEMES / TIME STAMPS:

• How self-worth directly affects the relationships you attract (00:09:25)
• The Fairy-Tale Myth and intimacy blocks (00:15:55)
• Tangible tools (including our new Stripped DI) that help shed limiting beliefs, deepen intimacy, and manifest aligned relationships (00:28:20)
  

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The Expanded Podcast, from To Be Magnetic™ (TBM), is the leading manifestation podcast rooted in neuroscience, psychology, and energetics. Hosted by TBM’s Chief Content Officer Jessica Gill, with monthly appearances from founder Lacy Phillips, Expanded is where science and the mystical meet to help you manifest in the most grounded, practical, and life-changing way.

At TBM, we’ve redefined manifestation through Neural Manifestation™—our proven, science-backed method developed with neuroscientist Dr. Tara Swart. This process helps you reprogram limiting beliefs at the subconscious level so you can create the life most aligned with your authenticity.

Each week, we take you inside the TBM practice to help you expand your subconscious to believe what you desire is possible. Through expert interviews, thought leader conversations, TBM teachings, and real member success stories, you’ll learn how to:
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With over than 40 million downloads and a global community in over 100 countries, Expanded has become the gold standard in manifestation content. Think of it as your weekly practice for expanding your mind, believing what you want is possible, and manifesting the life you’re meant to live.

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