147: Breaking Free from the Nice Guy Syndrome: A Conversation with Dr. Robert Glover

147: Breaking Free from the Nice Guy Syndrome: A Conversation with Dr. Robert Glover

In this episode of the Modern Man Podcast, host and guest Dr. Robert Glover delve into the complexities of male identity, the challenges of Nice Guy Syndrome, and the importance of community in personal growth. Dr. Glover shares his journey from being a 'nice guy' to understanding the deeper issues that men face in relationships and personal development. He emphasizes the need for men to embrace vulnerability, establish boundaries, and seek support from like-minded individuals. The conversation highlights the ongoing nature of self-improvement and the significance of authentic connections in overcoming personal struggles. In this conversation, Dr. Robert Glover discusses the importance of male connection and community, emphasizing how men's groups and retreats can transform lives. He explores the concept of boundaries, reframing them as tools for leadership and deeper relationships. Through personal anecdotes and insights, he highlights the necessity of experiencing community and the profound impact it can have on personal development and emotional health. Dr. Glover also shares a life-changing near-death experience that reshaped his perspective on life and fear.

Takeaways

  • The journey of self-improvement is ongoing and never truly finished.
  • Nice Guy Syndrome often stems from early life experiences and emotional memories.
  • Men need to learn to be vulnerable and open about their feelings.
  • Establishing boundaries is crucial for personal growth and healthy relationships.
  • Community support plays a vital role in overcoming personal challenges.
  • Men often overcorrect from being 'nice' to being overly assertive or selfish.
  • Authenticity is key to building trust in relationships.
  • Self-sacrificing behaviors can lead to decreased relationship satisfaction.
  • It's important to recognize and address emotional triggers in relationships.
  • Men benefit from learning in a supportive group environment. Men need connections to learn from their experiences.
  • The community can provide support and accountability.
  • Experiencing a men's group can be transformative.
  • Boundaries are about self-empowerment, not control.
  • The 'ouch' method helps communicate feelings effectively.
  • Healthy boundaries invite deeper relationships.
  • Men are wired to be part of a tribe.
  • A near-death experience can change your outlook on life.
  • Setting boundaries can lead to healthier interactions.
  • Men's retreats offer invaluable experiences for growth.

Glover' s Links

Website: drglover.com

Books: No More Mr. Nice Guy: No More Mr. Nice Guy

Dating Essentials for Men: Dating Essentials for Men

Social Media:

X: dr_r_glover

Facebook: drrobertglover

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171: From Corporate Success to Coaching Impact with Steve Hill

171: From Corporate Success to Coaching Impact with Steve Hill

In this episode of the Modern Man Podcast, host Ted Phaeton speaks with Steve Hill, a seasoned business leader and executive coach, about personal growth, the importance of community, and the concept of the 'Four Fires' that represent the key areas of life: professional, physical, people, and purpose. Steve shares his journey from corporate success to coaching, emphasizing the importance of men taking ownership of their lives and pursuing holistic success. The conversation highlights the significance of relationships, discipline, and living with purpose, encouraging listeners to reflect on their own paths and the impact they can have on others. Takeaways Growth is a continuous journey that requires self-awareness. Men often compare themselves to their goals without recognizing their progress. The transition from corporate to coaching can be driven by a desire to impact others positively. Holistic success involves balancing professional, physical, social, and purposeful aspects. Building strong relationships is essential for personal fulfillment. Purpose gives direction to our lives and actions. Discipline is crucial for achieving long-term goals and maintaining balance. Surrounding yourself with strong men can foster growth and accountability. Taking ownership of one's life is key to making meaningful changes. The Four Fires framework helps individuals assess and improve their lives holistically. Chapters 00:46 – Introduction to the Modern Man Podcast 03:21 – The Journey to Becoming the Best Version of Yourself 05:59 – Transitioning from Corporate to Coaching 08:42 – The Importance of Balance in Life 11:31 – The Four Fires of Life 14:33 – The Role of Men in Society 16:58 – Finding Purpose Beyond Financial Success 27:40 – The Four Fires of Life 32:39 – Building a Purpose-Driven Life 37:14 – Transformations Through the Four Fires 42:48 – Resources for Growth and Connection 46:14 – Life Lessons and Personal Growth Hill’s Links Website: leadadvisors.org www.four-fires.com Instagram: Four Fires Tribe Spotify: The Four-Fires Podcast Free eBook Here: Mastering Self-Development: Strategies of the New Masculine: https://rebrand.ly/m2ebook ⚔️JOIN THE NOBLE KNIGHTS MASTERMIND⚔️ https://themodernmanpodcast.com/thenobleknights 🤝CONNECT WITH THE MODERN MAN🤝 Visit our website: themodernmanshow.com Follow us on Twitter: TheModernMan8 Follow us on Instagram: @TheModernManShow Subscribe to our YouTube channel: The Modern Man

5 Sep 57min

170: Building a Legacy: The Power of Financial Education with Sergio Loaiza

170: Building a Legacy: The Power of Financial Education with Sergio Loaiza

In this episode of the Modern Man Podcast, host Ted welcomes Sergio Loaiza, founder of Protect Your Legacy, a financial education firm. They discuss the importance of financial sovereignty, the concept of infinite banking, and how to build a legacy for future generations. Sergio shares his personal journey, the significance of surrounding oneself with the right people, and the mindset needed for financial success. The conversation highlights the importance of financial education and the influence of personal experiences on one's outlook on life and finances. Takeaways The system isn't broken; we just don't know the rules. Protecting your legacy starts with protecting it now. Surround yourself with good-quality people. The quality of your life is determined by the quality of questions you ask. Money is like air; when you have it, you don't think about it. You can choose to believe in the principles or not. If you pay cash, that cash is gone forever. You can become your banker. Life is easier when you have your finances under control. You have to be so confident in who you are. Chapters 00:00 - The power of questions and emulation (Teaser) 00:57 - Introduction to the Modern Man Podcast 02:24 - Sergio Loiza: A Journey of Legacy and Entrepreneurship 06:04 - The Inception of Protect Your Legacy 10:06 - Understanding Infinite Banking and Financial Sovereignty 12:22 - The Importance of Mindset in Financial Success 15:08 - The Concept of a Prayer Closet 18:17 - Surrounding Yourself with the Right Influences 21:11 - The Legacy Effect and Generational Wealth 23:54 - The Rockefeller Waterfall Method 25:45 - The Power of Compounding and Legacy Building 29:30 - Shifting Mindsets: From Employee to Entrepreneur 36:50 - Infinite Banking: A Game-Changer for Financial Control 43:04 - Life Lessons: The Fragility of Existence and Financial Security Loaiza’s Links Facebook: SergPro11 LinkedIn: sergio-loaiza Instagram Business: protect.your.legancy Personal: sergpro11/ YouTube: @ProtectYourLegacy Free eBook Here: Mastering Self-Development: Strategies of the New Masculine: https://rebrand.ly/m2ebook ⚔️JOIN THE NOBLE KNIGHTS MASTERMIND⚔️ https://themodernmanpodcast.com/thenobleknights 🤝CONNECT WITH THE MODERN MAN🤝 Visit our website: themodernmanshow.com Follow us on Twitter: TheModernMan8 Follow us on Instagram: @TheModernManShow Subscribe to our YouTube channel: The Modern Man

29 Aug 52min

169: Living in the Tension: Faith, Family & Leadership with Travis Aultman

169: Living in the Tension: Faith, Family & Leadership with Travis Aultman

In this episode of The Modern Man Podcast, host Ted engages with Travis Altman, a leadership and life coach, discussing the complexities of men's lives, the tension they face, and the importance of legacy. Travis shares his journey of transformation, the inception of his organization 'I Must Stand', and the impactful 'Wake Weekend' event designed to help men navigate their personal and professional lives. The conversation emphasizes the significance of understanding tension, making conscious choices, and the role of faith in leadership. Takeaways Travis Altman helps high-performing men achieve success without losing their families. Tension is the space between where I am and where I want to be. Financial success without family means nothing. Men often settle for a life of mediocrity without realizing it. Choosing comfort over purpose leads to self-betrayal. Legacy is defined by the decisions we make today. The Wake Weekend is a transformative experience for men. Tension is a gift that helps develop necessary qualities. Every day is a new choice towards the legacy we want to leave. Faith plays a crucial role in leadership and personal growth. Chapters 00:55 - Introduction to The Modern Man Podcast02:24 - Understanding Tension in Men's Lives06:08 - Defining Tension and Its Impact09:35 - The Importance of Embracing Tension11:40 - Navigating Personal Tension and Scarcity20:39 - Travis's Journey of Transformation24:37 - Taking Control of Your Life28:54 - The Inception of I Must Stand34:18 - Understanding What's at Stake39:12 - Faith and Leadership44:23 - Finding Your Edge Aultman’s Links Website: www.imuststand.com Instagram: @travisaultman Linkedin: travis-aultman Free eBook Here: Mastering Self-Development: Strategies of the New Masculine: https://rebrand.ly/m2ebook ⚔️JOIN THE NOBLE KNIGHTS MASTERMIND⚔️ https://themodernmanpodcast.com/thenobleknights 🤝CONNECT WITH THE MODERN MAN🤝 Visit our website: themodernmanshow.com Follow us on Twitter: TheModernMan8 Follow us on Instagram: @TheModernManShow Subscribe to our YouTube channel: The Modern Man

22 Aug 53min

168: Building Godly Masculinity: Legacy, Leadership & the Core4 with Franklin Swann

168: Building Godly Masculinity: Legacy, Leadership & the Core4 with Franklin Swann

In this episode of the Modern Man Podcast, host Ted Phaeton speaks with Franklin Swann, founder and CEO of Swans Furniture and Design, about the journey of personal growth, resilience, and the importance of emotional health in men's lives. Franklin shares his struggles with self-worth and the pivotal moment that led him to serve other men. The conversation delves into the significance of coaching, the tools for managing overwhelm, and the transformative power of self-talk and self-respect. Franklin emphasizes the need for balance between high standards and self-compassion, and the role of family values in sustaining a legacy. The episode concludes with insights on biblical masculinity and the impact of fatherhood on personal development. Takeaways Franklin Swann emphasizes the importance of community and support for men. Personal struggles can lead to a greater purpose in helping others. Coaching played a crucial role in Franklin's journey to self-improvement. Emotional health is often the missing piece in men's lives. Self-talk and self-respect are vital for emotional well-being. Balancing high standards with self-compassion is essential. Forgiveness and appreciation for oneself can transform one's outlook. Family values contribute significantly to business success and legacy. Biblical masculinity provides a foundation for fatherhood and personal growth. Investing in oneself is the first step towards leading others. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Modern Man Podcast 01:19 Meet Franklin Swann: A Journey of Resilience 03:20 The Call to Serve Other Men 07:33 Overcoming Personal Struggles and Finding Purpose 09:46 The Importance of Coaching and Support 11:14 Navigating Life's Pressures and Expectations 13:28 Tools for Managing Overwhelm 15:37 Emotional Health: The Missing Piece 19:20 Transforming Self-Talk and Self-Respect 20:41 Balancing High Standards with Self-Compassion 24:48 Manifesting Self-Love in Daily Life 28:30 Journaling for Self-Improvement 30:44 Family Values and Business Legacy 33:42 Biblical Masculinity and Fatherhood 38:16 Final Thoughts and Resources Swann’s Links Website: theworldneedsmen.com Facebook: franklin.swann Instagram: theworldneedsmen Free eBook Here: Mastering Self-Development: Strategies of the New Masculine: https://rebrand.ly/m2ebook ⚔️JOIN THE NOBLE KNIGHTS MASTERMIND⚔️ https://themodernmanpodcast.com/thenobleknights 🤝CONNECT WITH THE MODERN MAN🤝 Visit our website: themodernmanshow.com Follow us on Twitter: TheModernMan8 Follow us on Instagram: @TheModernManShow Subscribe to our YouTube channel: The Modern Man

16 Aug 49min

167: The Entrepreneurial Spirit: Lessons from Bilal Osiffou

167: The Entrepreneurial Spirit: Lessons from Bilal Osiffou

In this episode,Bilal Osiffou shares his journey from self-awareness to entrepreneurship, emphasizing the importance of spirituality, self-development, and building meaningful relationships. He discusses the challenges and rewards of being an entrepreneur, the lessons learned from boxing, and the significance of community engagement through initiatives like The Hive. Bilal’s insights inspire listeners to embrace their journeys, seek value in connections, and remain resilient in the face of adversity. Takeaways I rewired my thoughts and became obsessed with the subconscious mind. You have to acknowledge that you have that control to do something with that. Most men live lives of quiet desperation, missing out on their true potential. You have to have faith that people will think you’re crazy when you pursue your dreams. Entrepreneurship requires you to know your why and stay committed to it. Building relationships starts with offering value to others. Self-development is crucial for personal and professional growth. The entrepreneurial journey is filled with ups and downs, requiring resilience. Boxing teaches you about discipline, respect, and the importance of strategy. Community engagement is vital for networking and personal growth. Chapters 00:00 Unlocking Self-Awareness and Control 02:23 The Journey of an Entrepreneur 08:33 Spirituality and Faith in Entrepreneurship 13:54 The Path to Self-Development 17:37 Building Relationships and Networking 23:22 The Importance of Value in Connections 29:37 Navigating the Entrepreneurial Journey 33:25 Lessons from Boxing and Life 42:59 Community Engagement and The Hive Issifou’s Links Website: unchainedinc.com Instagram: thereallbilal LinkedIn: bilal issifou Free eBook Here: Mastering Self-Development: Strategies of the New Masculine: https://rebrand.ly/m2ebook ⚔️JOIN THE NOBLE KNIGHTS MASTERMIND⚔️ https://themodernmanpodcast.com/thenobleknights 🤝CONNECT WITH THE MODERN MAN🤝 Visit our website: themodernmanshow.com Follow us on Twitter: TheModernMan8 Follow us on Instagram: @TheModernManShow Subscribe to our YouTube channel: The Modern Man

8 Aug 56min

166: Inclusive Leadership: How Blindness Became Dr. Adams’ Superpower

166: Inclusive Leadership: How Blindness Became Dr. Adams’ Superpower

In this episode of the Modern Man Podcast, host Ted Phaeton speaks with Dr. Kirk Adams, a globally recognized pioneer in disability inclusion. They discuss Dr. Adams' journey from losing his sight at a young age to becoming a leader in the nonprofit sector, advocating for the inclusion of people with disabilities in the workforce.TakeawaysDr. Adams lost his sight at the age of five, but his parents gave him high expectations.The development of a strong sense of agency is crucial for overcoming challenges.Leadership is not a linear path; it often involves unexpected turns.Technology plays a vital role in enabling accessibility for individuals with disabilities.Employers can benefit from the unique strengths of people with disabilities.Collaboration between various stakeholders is essential for successful inclusion.Understanding the difference between impairment and disability is key to creating inclusive environments.Familiarity and personal connections can help bridge gaps in understanding disabilities.The unemployment rate for people with disabilities is significantly higher than the general population.Dr. Adams aims to create a level playing field for people with disabilities in the workforce.Chapters00:00 Introduction to the Modern Man Podcast01:21 Meet Dr. Kirk Adams: A Journey of Resilience03:59 The Gifts of High Expectations and Agency08:39 Lessons in Leadership and Inclusion10:12 Navigating Challenges: The Path to Leadership17:10 Tools and Strategies for Blind Professionals22:19 Innovation and Inclusion in the Workplace23:11 The Benefits of Employing People with Disabilities24:02 Collaboration for Better Employment Outcomes25:09 Utilizing Vocational Rehabilitation Resources28:08 Impact on Company Bottom Lines32:02 Understanding and Empathy in Leadership36:49 A Vision for Equal Employment OutcomesAdams’s LinksLinkedIn: kirkadamsphdYouTube: @DrKirkAdamsX: drkirkadamsFacebook:drkirkadamsFree eBook Here: Mastering Self-Development: Strategies of the New Masculine: https://rebrand.ly/m2ebook ⚔️JOIN THE NOBLE KNIGHTS MASTERMIND⚔️https://themodernmanpodcast.com/thenobleknights 🤝CONNECT WITH THE MODERN MAN🤝Visit our website: themodernmanshow.comFollow us on Twitter: TheModernMan8 Follow us on Instagram: @TheModernManShow Subscribe to our YouTube channel: The Modern Man

1 Aug 52min

165: Embracing Authenticity: A Journey of Self-Discovery with Jack Landry

165: Embracing Authenticity: A Journey of Self-Discovery with Jack Landry

In this episode of The Modern Man Podcast, host Ted Thayton engages with Jack Landry, a former Amazon engineer and founder of Move.D, a coaching company for Christian men. They discuss the importance of authenticity, overcoming anxiety, and the role of community in personal growth. Jack shares his journey of self-discovery, the significance of faith, and the challenges of letting go of negative habits. The conversation emphasizes the need for intentional living, the impact of the environment on growth, and the understanding of God's timing in personal transformation. TakeawaysEmbrace your true self to overcome anxiety.Community is essential for personal growth.Let go of societal expectations to find authenticity.Faith plays a crucial role in personal development.Identify and eliminate negative habits.Small wins build momentum for larger goals.Marriage brings a new perspective on life.Intentional living is key to fulfillment.Your environment influences your growth.God's timing is perfect for personal transformation. Chapters00:00 Embracing Authenticity and Overcoming Anxiety01:26 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Transformation09:04 Navigating Identity Beyond Titles14:21 Breaking Free from Negative Habits19:18 Building Momentum Through Small Wins22:48 The Evolution of Purpose in Relationships27:54 Balancing Business and Family Life32:29 Intentional Relationships and Time Management37:29 The Role of Faith in Personal Growth38:50 Building a Relationship with God41:40 Coaching and Personal Development46:19 Transformative Experiences and Perspectives Landry’s LinksLinkedIn: jack-landryInstagram: jack.p.landryYouTube: @jackplandry Free eBook Here: Mastering Self-Development: Strategies of the New Masculine: https://rebrand.ly/m2ebook ⚔️JOIN THE NOBLE KNIGHTS MASTERMIND⚔️https://themodernmanpodcast.com/thenobleknights 🤝CONNECT WITH THE MODERN MAN🤝Visit our website: themodernmanshow.comFollow us on Twitter: TheModernMan8Follow us on Instagram: @TheModernManShow Subscribe to our YouTube channel: The Modern Man

25 Juli 1h

164: Overcoming Rejection in Your Career with Joel Goldberg

164: Overcoming Rejection in Your Career with Joel Goldberg

In this episode of the Modern Man Podcast, host Ted Phaeton speaks with Joel Goldberg, an Emmy award-winning sports broadcaster and keynote speaker. They discuss Joel's unique journey into broadcasting, the importance of creating opportunities, and the lessons learned from working with championship teams. Joel shares insights on teamwork, reputation, and the trust required in live broadcasting, emphasizing the significance of understanding each role within a team. In this conversation, Joel Goldberg, a seasoned sports broadcaster, shares insights on the behind-the-scenes aspects of sports broadcasting, the importance of preparation, and how small changes can lead to significant impacts in both personal and professional life. He discusses the inevitability of adversity and how to navigate it, emphasizing the concept of 'small ball'—the little things that contribute to success. Through relatable stories, he illustrates resilience and the importance of understanding one's purpose, particularly in challenging times.TakeawaysEmbrace discomfort and cultivate community.Being in the public eye can be isolating.The path to success often involves rejection.Creating your opportunities is crucial.Teamwork is essential in broadcasting and sports.Reputation is key to staying in the industry.Control what you can control in your career.Understanding each team member's role enhances collaboration.Trust in your team leads to successful broadcasts.Life lessons from sports apply to all professions. The best learning often happens off-camera.Preparation is key to handling big events smoothly.Trust in your team is essential during live broadcasts.Control what you can and let go of the rest.Small changes can lead to significant outcomes.Success often comes from the little things we do consistently.Adversity is a part of life; how we handle it matters.Routine and structure help maintain focus and energy.Finding purpose in your work can lead to greater fulfillment.Resilience is built through overcoming challenges.Chapters 00:20 - Introduction to the Modern Man Podcast 01:43 - Meet Joel Goldberg: A Unique Broadcasting Journey 04:35 - The Path to Becoming a Broadcaster 10:29 - Creating Opportunities and Overcoming Rejection 14:21 - Lessons from Championship Teams 19:42 - The Trust and Teamwork Behind Broadcasts 23:28 - Behind the Scenes of Sports Broadcasting 26:20 - The Importance of Being Prepared 27:36 - Small Changes, Big Impacts 31:10 - Navigating Adversity 38:04 - Finding Your Small Ball 41:25 - Lessons from Stories of ResilienceGoldberg’s LinksWebsite: www.joelgoldbergmedia.comFacebook: GoldbergkcInstagram: joelgoldbergkcYouTube: @JoelGoldbergMedia Free eBook Here: Mastering Self-Development: Strategies of the New Masculine: https://rebrand.ly/m2ebook⚔️JOIN THE NOBLE KNIGHTS MASTERMIND⚔️https://themodernmanpodcast.com/thenobleknights 🤝CONNECT WITH THE MODERN MAN🤝Visit our website: themodernmanshow.comFollow us on Twitter: TheModernMan8Follow us on Instagram: @TheModernManShow Subscribe to our YouTube channel: The Modern Man

18 Juli 53min

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