113. The Evolution of an Icon: Exploring Confidence and Reinvention with Rebecca More

Coming up on this episode of Flirtations is the iconic Rebecca More!

Adult industry legend, one-half of the unforgettable Cock Destroyers, star of Slag Wars, and soon competing in an Ironman, today we’re going beyond fame to talk about reinvention.

In this conversation, Rebecca shares her journey of stepping away from porn and adult work, grieving the loss of her dear friend Sophie, and navigating what life looks like now.

We talk about confidence, change, and why it’s never too late to choose a new path—or to discover an entirely new version of yourself.

Rebecca shares how she stays playful, how she keeps evolving, and how we can embrace change no matter what phase of life we’re in.

We’ll also hear some flirting tips, Rebecca’s thoughts on her gay icon status, and what it’s like training for an Ironman!

So, whether you’ve followed Rebecca for years (like me!) or are just getting to know her, you don’t want to miss this conversation as we explore reinvention and why it’s always possible to ask ourselves for more.

Let’s do this Flirties, and meet Rebecca More.

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About our guest: Rebecca More is a British adult industry legend, performance artist, cultural icon, and one-half of the unforgettable Cock Destroyers, a viral sensation that redefined internet fame and queer adoration. With her signature confidence, camp energy, and unapologetic authenticity, Rebecca has built a devoted global following and continues to inspire audiences far beyond adult entertainment.

She starred in the hit queer reality competition Slag Wars and is now on a powerful journey of personal reinvention—stepping away from porn, training for an Ironman, and embracing new chapters of life with humor, heart, and honesty. A fierce advocate for confidence, self-expression, and embracing change at any stage of life, Rebecca remains a beloved icon and inspiration to many.

You can follow Rebecca's personal Instagram, adult work-focused Instagram, check out the Growth Fridays podcast and lifestyle vlogs on YouTube, and follow her on Twitter.

About your host: Benjamin is a flirt and dating coach sharing his love of flirting and BFE - big flirt energy - with the world! A lifelong introvert and socially anxious member of society, Benjamin now helps singles and daters alike flirt with more confidence, clarity, and fun!

As the flirt is all about connection, Benjamin helps the flirt community (the Flirties!) date from a place that allows the value of connection in all forms - platonic, romantic, and with the self - to take center stage.

Ultimately, this practice of connection helps flirters and daters alike create stronger relationships, transcend limiting beliefs, and develop an unwavering love for the self.

His work has been featured in Fortune, NBC News, The Huffington Post, and Yoga Journal.

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