#279 Stop Calling It a Discard, You Are Not Trash

#279 Stop Calling It a Discard, You Are Not Trash

In today’s solo episode, I’m diving into a term I’ve seen popping up everywhere lately—“discard”—especially in the context of avoidant attachment styles and breakups. I share how I started noticing this lingo in my Q&As on Instagram, did some research, and why the use of “discard” really doesn’t sit right with me. I break down why I believe using this term is harmful, how it can lower self-esteem, invalidate your relationship experience, and make moving forward so much harder. I also touch on the dangers of getting too wrapped up in therapy-speak and diagnostic labels instead of just allowing yourself to process the real sadness and pain of heartbreak. If you’ve felt “thrown away” in a blindsided or one-sided breakup, this episode is for you—I hope it helps you feel seen and reminds you not to tie your worth to someone else’s inability to commit.

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#315 How to Truly Support Someone Through Grief with Shelby Forsythia

#315 How to Truly Support Someone Through Grief with Shelby Forsythia

In today’s expert episode I’m joined by grief coach, author, and podcaster Shelby Forsythia, who is returning to talk about her new book, Of Course I’m Here Right Now. Shelby breaks down her powerful ...

31 Mars 55min

#314 Building Your Emotional Toolkit with Mal Glowenke

#314 Building Your Emotional Toolkit with Mal Glowenke

In today's episode, I'm interviewing Mal Glowenke, host of the Made It Out podcast, who's been a pioneer in the lesbian podcast scene. We dive into her recent breakup—not only with her romantic partne...

24 Mars 43min

#313 Infinite Paths to Healing: Japanese Spirituality and Heartbreak with Hiroko Yoda

#313 Infinite Paths to Healing: Japanese Spirituality and Heartbreak with Hiroko Yoda

In today's expert episode, I'm interviewing Hiroko Yoda, a Japanese cultural historian, journalist, and author of the new book "8 Million Ways to Happiness: Wisdom for Inspiration and Healing from the...

17 Mars 43min

#312 Breaking Free From Narcissism with Dr. Alina Kastner

#312 Breaking Free From Narcissism with Dr. Alina Kastner

In today’s expert episode, I’m joined by Dr. Alina Kastner, a Vienna-based psychotherapist and author of Break Up with Narcissism: How to Break Free and Stay Free. We dive into what really happens aft...

10 Mars 45min

#311 Discovering DIY Spirituality with Faith Freed

#311 Discovering DIY Spirituality with Faith Freed

In today’s expert episode, I’m interviewing Faith Freed, a licensed psychotherapist, spiritual guide, and author of the new book DIY Spirituality: Chart Your Own Sacred Path. We dive into the intersec...

3 Mars 46min

#310 The Secrets to Cultivating a Village That Shows Up When Life Gets Tough

#310 The Secrets to Cultivating a Village That Shows Up When Life Gets Tough

To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://tally.so/r/Y5Z6LNTo get my course bundle Heal Your Br...

24 Feb 28min

#309 When Stress at Work Impacts Love at Home with Guy Winch

#309 When Stress at Work Impacts Love at Home with Guy Winch

In today's expert episode, I'm joined by one of my all-time favorite guests (and yours!), Guy Winch, psychologist, TED speaker, and author of the brand new book Mind Over Grind. We dive deep into the ...

17 Feb 45min

#308 Understanding Limerence and Longing with Amanda McCracken

#308 Understanding Limerence and Longing with Amanda McCracken

In today's expert episode, I'm joined by journalist and author Amanda McCracken to dive deep into the topics of longing and limerence—those intense, ruminating crushes or obsessions that can stick wit...

10 Feb 42min

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