Healing Through Hugs: Boundaries, Belonging, and Self-Acceptance with Melinda Lee

On this episode of Healthy Mind, Healthy Life, host Avik explores the practice of “healing through hugs” with author and coach Melinda Lee, whose memoir Rebel Hugger documents a year of offering consensual hugs to strangers—and the deeper truth she uncovered: the connection she gave others was the connection she hadn’t given herself. We discuss intention vs. habit, consent and boundaries, people-pleasing and depletion, and a simple self-hug practice to regulate the nervous system. Clear, grounded, and practical—this conversation reframes touch as an act of presence, not performance.

About the Guest:

Melinda Lee is the author of Rebel Hugger, a coach, and a certified Healing Touch for Animals practitioner. Her work centers on connection, consent, and embodied compassion.

Key Takeaways:

• Consent first: Melinda always asked, “Can I give you a hug?”—a model for safe, respectful connection.

• Intention matters more than the act: a present, welcomed hug can be regulating; a habitual hug can be empty.

• People-pleasing depletes: giving from an “empty cup” invites burnout and dis-ease; self-nourishment is non-negotiable.

• Boundaries are loving: a hug can invite closeness and still honor where you end and the other begins.

• Rejection isn’t rupture: when someone says “no,” stay in relationship—eye contact, respect, and warmth still connect.

• The mirror effect: outward generosity can expose inner neglect; notice what you’re seeking from others and practice giving it to yourself.

• Micro-practice: hand on heart, a few slow breaths, feel energy “flow” around the body—20–30 seconds to reset.

• Safety lens: enter interactions believing most people are kind while staying grounded, aware, and boundaried.

Connect with the Guest

Website: https://melindaleeschmitt.com/Book: Rebel Hugger Follow Melinda Lee on social media platforms

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