Episode 373: It Only Took 5 Years...

It's become one of the buzz phrases in the lifestyle: It should be about you as a couple. Do the things that bring you closer together as a couple. While we understand this concept, it does have us qu...

13 Apr 46min

A controversial take on religious lifestylers from the perspective of two people who consider themselves anti-religion... Before you get offended, listen to our take!  Join us for an upcoming event, i...

6 Apr 46min

We all know it happens: Something doesn't work exactly as it should, we catch a funky odor, or something else happens that otherwise derails the fun. But whose responsibility is it? And when do you ca...

30 Mars 46min

Brian was introduced to a new concept in the lifestyle this week: Pre-consent. It was argued that if you negotiate play prior to taking substances, it's a very ethical way to get f-ed up out of your m...

23 Mars 43min

After watching a documentary all about the rampant misogyny currently being spewed to young men on the internet, we were left with one important question: How is this going to impact the lifestyle? Pl...

16 Mars 53min

A very raw and honest conversation about the intimacy issues we've experienced, in part because of our involvement in the lifestyle. How did jumping straight into ethical non-monogamy impact our sex l...

9 Mars 55min

We haven't always been the best when it comes to setting solid boundaries in our lifestyle friendships. When you combine sex with interpersonal relationships, things can get sticky fast. We explain ho...

2 Mars 44min

Brenna finally reveals the catalyst for her sobriety, and it leads to a very real and honest conversation about how we plan to navigate our professional worlds moving forward. We also discuss the conc...

23 Feb 54min