
Brian - Belonging, Grief, and Queer Ritual
Send a text In this episode, Vance chats with Brian G. Murphy, author of Love Beyond Monogamy, for a conversation about ritual, community, and the ways we create meaning in our lives. Together, they e...
16 Mars 1h 8min

Tom - Monogamous, Open, or Something Else?
Send a text In this episode, Vance chats with Tom, a sex and relationship therapist, for an honest conversation about what it feels like to be gay men navigating modern intimacy. Together, they unpack...
8 Dec 20251h 6min

Gary - Compulsive Sex, Safety & the Search for Real Intimacy
Send a text In this episode, Vance chats with Gary Albert — therapist, embodiment facilitator, and former classical musician — to explore the winding path that led him into supporting gay men in their...
24 Nov 20251h 8min

Dr Dallas - Sober Sex Is Real
Send a text In this episode, Vance chats with Dr. Dallas Bragg, a recovery coach who supports queer men navigating chemsex and addiction. Dallas opens up about his own journey from addiction to recove...
10 Nov 20251h 2min

Daniel - Getting Off or Getting Real?
Send a text Vance and Daniel dive into the complexities of the adult industry—exploring perceptions, personal journeys, and the importance of intimacy and connection in porn. They unpack the realities...
27 Okt 20251h 14min

David aka Davey Wavey - Love, Lust, and Age Gaps
Send a text Vance sits down with David Jacques, aka Davey Wavey, for a no-holds-barred conversation about dating, hookups, and desire. They swap some of their best (and worst) dating stories and talk ...
13 Okt 202552min

Kevin - Authenticity, Mindfulness, and Sexual Empowerment
Send a text In this episode, Coach Kevin Martin and Vance dive into personal growth, the intersection of therapy and content creation, and the journey of embracing sexuality. We talk about the challen...
29 Sep 20251h 1min

Tim - Sex Education and the Freedom to Be Ourselves
Send a text In this engaging conversation, Tim Lagman, a certified sex educator and podcaster, shares insights on sex education, body image, and the complexities of relationships within the LGBTQ+ com...
15 Sep 202549min





















