From Threesomes to Non-Monogamy: One Man's Journey Beyond Jealousy and Shame

Ep 168: Female Sexuality and Sexual Help for Women with Jordan D'Nelle. This is a very epic and amazingly informative episode for women and men too!  Jordan D'Nelle is a Physician Associate, Women's Sexual Health Educator, Intimacy Coach, and speaker. She is the founder of the Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators Podcast. Her goal is to raise awareness about conditions, sexuality, sexual intimacy and relationships that specifically affect women. She wants to help normalize women's health and create a safe space for women to feel validated. She has been featured in Cosmopolitan magazine, Women's Health Magazine, and many other podcasts. She is a resident blogger for ForPlay films. She has helped many woman overcome shame and have better intimacy with themselves and their partners. Jordan and I shared an amazing discussion. We chatted about how erotica is a tool, a resource to improve your sex life, as are sex toys. She addressed how poor sex ed is in the US because it has always focused on the male and ignores the female, and shame starts there. We need to rewrite these stories as we create more comprehensive and thorough sex ed now and include both sexes in all discussions. Educators need talk about the real purpose for sex, which also can lead to decreasing shame around sex. She explained how squirting is not pee. Get a squirt blanket! Yes! It's a thing! She also elaborated on the types of orgasms females have and that pleasure should be the focus. I loved how our discussion went when Jordan and I talked about ethical porn, erotic blueprints, and kink, and how kink can be used to heal past trauma by rewriting it. Other fantastic topics we hit on are that there is no "normal" when it comes to sex and kink and how the BDSM community really does it right in terms of consent and communication. It's a great model all relationships should adopt whether they are into kink or not. She talked about how we are all way kinkier than we are lead to believe by society and culture. She also talked about the benefits of daily masturbation for females, period sex, and taking the time to learn what turns us all on. She highly recommends the book (affiliate) Pussy Reclamation: https://amzn.to/3nEUeF8 Connect with Jordan here: https://jordandnelle.com/menu/ Welcome! Hello! Welcome to my podcast! Connect with me here as well: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Listen to this podcast episode to improve your sexuality, learn something new, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find erotica and romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care,  intimacy, for adults only,  interviews with experts, and the podcast is intended for the purposes of entertainment with some sex ed thrown in. Expand your fantasy life, and dwell in the erotic arts for a bit. Sexual health and fitness are essential parts for a healthy sex life. Have a sexy day! Love ya, Ruan P.S. Get a copy of my new book  Ruan's Beach Getaway rated 5 stars:You can find this book on sale at online sellers: https://books2read.com/u/m2eE6d And on Amazon  for any market in the world (affiliate): https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/c9fbb3e6- Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

5 Heinä 20221h

Ep 167: Sex at the Coffee Shop, Sucking Nipples at the Licking Sip Coffee Shop, Final installment: Part 5 of 5 in the Podcast miniseries.  We've made it to the final episode in this sexy steamy story of exhibitionism, voyeurism, hooking up, and sexual satisfiaction! This little spicy story hits the ahhhh!!! button on the sexual kinks of many people. It's a fantasy for some, and a reality for others, but here, you get to experience it and enjoy and imagine all you want! This installment is the final hot sex scene between Lana the barista and the male customer. They share a mutual instant attraction and find they have similar kinks. They both experience delicious climaxes and sexual satisfaction. Be sure to listen to the episodes in order. This is part 5 of the story.  This full story is on my website https://ruanwillowauthor.com/sucking-nipples-at-the-licking-sip-coffee-shop/ Ruan's Books! https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Get a copy of my new book  Ruan's Beach Getaway rated 5 stars:https://books2read.com/u/m2eE6d And on Amazon affiliate: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/c9fbb3e6-ddf1-11ec-b61c-5b8761feaf66 Internet Radio Station! My podcast has been picked up by Full Swap Radio! It's an internet radio channel you can listen to within an app. Search for the free app Full Swap Radio to listen to my podcast and other sex-positive podcast shows. So many great ones there and I'm honored to be in their lineup: https://fullswapradio.com/ Welcome! Hello! Welcome to my podcast! Listen to this podcast episode to improve your sexuality, learn something new, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find erotica and romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care,  intimacy, for adults only,  interviews with experts, and the podcast is intended for the purposes of entertainment with some sex ed thrown in. Expand your fantasy life, and dwell in the erotic arts for a bit. Sexual health and fitness are essential parts for a healthy sex life. Have a sexy day! Love ya, Ruan Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

4 Heinä 202224min

Ep 166: Spanking the Barista, Sucking Nipples at the Licking Sip Coffee Shop Story Part 4 of 5, A Podcast Miniseries. Welcome to installment 4 in this erotica story podcast miniseries! In this episode we find Lana, the sexy coffee shop owner's wife, hooking up with a deliciously sexy man who is visiting the unique coffee shop for the first time. This installment is a part of the full scene between Lana and this man, which culminates in a hot sex scene in the last part of the miniseries. They both enjoy the impact play of sexual playful spanking in this episode. Be sure to listen to the episodes in order. This is part 4 of the story.  This full story is on my website https://ruanwillowauthor.com/sucking-nipples-at-the-licking-sip-coffee-shop/ Stay tuned for the rest of the hot nuggets of erotica coming daily until it's done, baby! Let's go! Ruan's Books! Get a copy of my new book  Ruan's Beach Getaway rated 5 stars:You can find this book on sale at online sellers: https://books2read.com/u/m2eE6d And on Amazon  for any market in the world (affiliate): https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/c9fbb3e6-ddf1-11ec-b61c-5b8761feaf66 Get the first book Ruan's Cabin Getaway where Ruan and Sebastian have sex all over the cabin for a fuckfest weekend! https://books2read.com/u/4jgBE2 https://books2read.com/u/medqrV Internet Radio Station! My podcast has been picked up by Full Swap Radio! It's an internet radio channel you can listen to within an app. Search for the free app Full Swap Radio to listen to my podcast and other sex-positive podcast shows. So many great ones there and I'm honored to be in their lineup: https://fullswapradio.com/  Welcome! Hello! Welcome to my podcast! Connect with me here as well: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Listen to this podcast episode to improve your sexuality, learn something new, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find erotica and romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care,  intimacy, for adults only,  interviews with experts, and the podcast is intended for the purposes of entertainment. Podcast Merch! Wear Oh F*ck Yeah! Get Oh F*ck Yeah Podcast Merch T-shirts, tank tops, long sleeve shirts, mugs! Wear it sassy and hot! Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

3 Heinä 20229min

Ep 165: Lana Hooks up with Customer, Sucking Nipples at the Licking Sip Coffee Shop; a podcast miniseries part 3 of 5. Welcome to installment 3 in this erotica story podcast miniseries! In this episode we find Lana, the sexy coffee shop owner's wife, hooking up with a deliciously sexy man who is visiting the unique coffee shop for the first time. He and his friends are blown away by the open sexuality and sharing that's going on in the shop. This installment marks the beginning of the full scene between Lana and this man, which culminates in a hot sex scene in the last part of the miniseries. Be sure to listen to the episodes in order. This is part 3 of the story.  This full story is on my website https://ruanwillowauthor.com/sucking-nipples-at-the-licking-sip-coffee-shop/ Stay tuned for the rest of the hot nuggets of erotica coming daily until it's done, baby! Let's go! Ruan's Books! Get a copy of my new book  Ruan's Beach Getaway rated 5 stars:You can find this book on sale at online sellers: https://books2read.com/u/m2eE6d And on Amazon  for any market in the world (affiliate): https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/c9fbb3e6-ddf1-11ec-b61c-5b8761feaf66 I hope you enjoy this narration and I'd be honored if you purchased my book and gave it an honest review on the site you purchased it from. Get the first book Ruan's Cabin Getaway where Ruan and Sebastian have sex all over the cabin for a fuckfest weekend! https://books2read.com/u/4jgBE2 https://books2read.com/u/medqrV Internet Radio Station! My podcast has been picked up by Full Swap Radio! It's an internet radio channel you can listen to within an app. Search for the free app Full Swap Radio to listen to my podcast and other sex-positive podcast shows. So many great ones there and I'm honored to be in their lineup: https://fullswapradio.com/  My episodes are currently set to air on Tuesdays at 6:30 pm CST and Wednesdays at 8:30 am. Find the schedule here: https://fullswapradio.com/show-line-up/ Welcome! Hello! Welcome to my podcast! Connect with me here as well: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Listen to this podcast episode to improve your sexuality, learn something new, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find erotica and romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care,  intimacy, for adults only,  interviews with experts, and the podcast is intended for the purposes of entertainment with some sex ed thrown in. Expand your fantasy life, and dwell in the erotic arts for a bit. Sexual health and fitness are essential parts for a healthy sex life. Have a sexy day! Love ya, Ruan Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

2 Heinä 202210min

Ep 164: Sucking Nipples at the Licking Sip Coffee Shop Part 2 Podcast miniseries. This is a podcast miniseries! You will get daily nuggets of this story until I make it to the end! It's a hot steamy intense erotic story about a fictitious coffee shop where patrons can tip to suck whipped cream off the waitress's tits, plus more! In this installment we find Lerise engaging with a patron and oh she's got the secrets! And we find out about the titty washer that Harley invented. Have a listen to this piece of erotic fiction! It's a story sure to get you revved up!  This is part 2 of the story.  This full story is on my website https://ruanwillowauthor.com/sucking-nipples-at-the-licking-sip-coffee-shop/ and on the site Lush Stories. Stay tuned for the rest of the hot nuggets of erotica coming daily until it's done, baby! Let's go! Ruan's Books! Get a copy of my new book  Ruan's Beach Getaway:You can find this book on sale at online sellers: https://books2read.com/u/m2eE6d And on Amazon  for any market in the world (affiliate): https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/c9fbb3e6-ddf1-11ec-b61c-5b8761feaf66 I hope you enjoy this narration and I'd be honored if you purchased my book and gave it an honest review on the site you purchased it from. Thanks for listening! Get the first book Ruan's Cabin Getaway where Ruan and Sebastian have sex all over the cabin for a fuckfest weekend! https://books2read.com/u/4jgBE2 And on Apple and Kobo https://books2read.com/u/medqrV Internet Radio Station! My podcast has been picked up by Full Swap Radio! It's an internet radio channel you can listen to within an app. Search for the free app Full Swap Radio to listen to my podcast and other sex-positive podcast shows. So many great ones there and I'm honored to be in their lineup: https://fullswapradio.com/  My episodes are currently set to air on Tuesdays at 6:30 pm CST and Wednesdays at 8:30 am. Find the schedule here: https://fullswapradio.com/show-line-up/ Welcome! Hello! Welcome to my podcast! Connect with me here as well: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Listen to this podcast episode to improve your sexuality, learn something new, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find erotica and romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care,  intimacy, for adults only,  interviews with experts, and the podcast is intended for the purposes of entertainment with some sex ed thrown in. Expand your fantasy life, and dwell in the erotic arts for a bit. Sexual health and fitness are essential parts for a healthy sex life. Have a sexy day! Love ya, Ruan Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

1 Heinä 202213min

Ep 163: Sucking Nipples at the Licking Sip Coffee Shop part 1: a podcast miniseries. This is a podcast miniseries! You will get daily nuggets of this story until I make it to the end! It's a hot steamy intense erotic story about a fictitious coffee shop where patrons can tip to suck whipped cream off the waitress's tits, plus more! But mind you, it's not a brothel, it's tip-based, but spankings, suckling, and all-out fucking are decided on a tip basis. Nothing is sold. It's a delicious lush dive into the fantasies many hold about exhibitionism, being used (consensual and non-abusive of course), and voyeurism. The characters all want what's happening to them to happen. They decide it all. And they ALL get off! The coffee shop is frequented by patrons who keep their eyes open, their wallets open (for coffee and more), and their mouths shut. They want this coffee shop to stay in business. It's guilty pleasures all around! The shop's owner, Harley, created this shop, and his wife works and runs the shop, but damn, does he love to watch what happens in his little scorching lust haven. This is part 1 of the story. This full story is on my website https://ruanwillowauthor.com/sucking-nipples-at-the-licking-sip-coffee-shop/ and on the site Lush Stories. Stay tuned for the rest of the hot nuggets of erotica coming daily until it's done, baby! Let's go! Ruan's Books! Get a copy of my new book  Ruan's Beach Getaway:You can find this book on sale at online sellers: https://books2read.com/u/m2eE6d And on Amazon  for any market in the world (affiliate): https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/c9fbb3e6-ddf1-11ec-b61c-5b8761feaf66 I hope you enjoy this narration and I'd be honored if you purchased my book and gave it an honest review on the site you purchased it from. Thanks for listening! Get the first book Ruan's Cabin Getaway where Ruan and Sebastian have sex all over the cabin for a fuckfest weekend! https://books2read.com/u/4jgBE2 And on Apple and Kobo https://books2read.com/u/medqrV Internet Radio Station! My podcast has been picked up by Full Swap Radio! It's an internet radio channel you can listen to within an app. Search for the free app Full Swap Radio to listen to my podcast and other sex-positive podcast shows. So many great ones there and I'm honored to be in their lineup: https://fullswapradio.com/  My episodes are currently set to air on Tuesdays at 6:30 pm CST and Wednesdays at 8:30 am. Find the schedule here: https://fullswapradio.com/show-line-up/ Welcome! Hello! Welcome to my podcast! Connect with me here as well: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Listen to this podcast episode to improve your sexuality, learn something new, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find erotica and romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care,  intimacy, for adults only,  interviews with experts, and the podcast is inten Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

30 Kesä 20229min

Ep 162: 9 Essentials for a Sex Vacation and How to Pack Them. Are you going on a sex vacation? Do you want to plan one because you love this idea? I have tips to make it hot, sexy, steamy, fun, and memorable. Whether sex is your vacation goal or just part of the vacation fun, my ideas are concrete ideas and products to help you enjoy, savor, and get the most sexual satisfaction possible. This episode even applies to those traveling without a partner because several of these things will help a person with solo sex as well. This podcast contains affiliate links to products I use and endorse. Please know that I do get a kickback for advertising the products but that is at no added cost to you. I hope you find this podcast episode helpful in planning your next vacation with sex in it, or your next sex vacation. You can have so much fun, just pack the right stuff and you will enjoy to the max! You can read this blog post with links to the products by clicking here:  https://ruanwillowauthor.com/9-essentials-for-a-sex-vacation-and-how-to-pack-them/ Links to products I LOVE from the podcast episode (affiliate): I adore these brands! Check them out! Link to the Zumio sex toy I love: https://shrsl.com/3l91u Lovense: https://amzn.to/3OKdm0b https://www.lovense.com/r/bhjft9 Mystery Vibe: https://shrsl.com/3l922 Promescent Delay Spray for longer-lasting erections, female arousal gel, orgasm-enhancing supplement, and lubes: https://shrsl.com/3l92b Ruan's favorite gel lube: https://amzn.to/3OJOUvS and https://amzn.to/3NtHjQQ and the purple one https://amzn.to/3I2DiCa Enhanced Male sex toy cleaner: https://shrsl.com/3l92k Avidlove lace lingerie: https://amzn.to/3OvFzrI Amazon Audible 3 month free trial: https://amzn.to/3HWGizU Want some ideas for your sex vacation? Check out my novellas where the topic is a sex vacation! Get a copy of my new book  Ruan's Beach Getaway:On sale at online sellers: https://books2read.com/u/m2eE6d And on Amazon  for any market in the world (affiliate): https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/c9fbb3e6-ddf1-11ec-b61c-5b8761feaf66 Get the first book Ruan's Cabin Getaway where Ruan and Sebastian have sex all over the cabin for a fuckfest weekend! https://books2read.com/u/4jgBE2 And on Apple and Kobo https://books2read.com/u/medqrV Hello! Welcome to my podcast! Connect with me here as well: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Listen to this podcast episode to improve your sexuality, learn something new, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find erotica and romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care,  Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

28 Kesä 202225min

Ep 161: Polyamory, Kink, & Sex Ed with Dirty Lola. My guest is Dirty Lola and I'm excited to share her with you! She's a sex edutainer, speaker, and self-proclaimed dildo slinger. She's a sex-positive individual who openly shares about her personal and sex life. She recently was on the Netflix documentary "The Principles of Pleasure" so check out this show! Connect with Lola at her website: https://www.dirtylola.co/ and her podcast https://www.sexedagogo.com/ Sex Ed & Toys: Lola shares about sex education and how we should be doing it. She and I discuss the value of sex toys and break the negative falsehoods around using them. We discuss the benefits of using sex toys both solo and in a relationship/partnership.  She talks about the lack of knowledge in the world of the anatomy of the clitoris and how clit owners benefit from sex toy usage. Kink: Dirty Lola shares information for those interested in kink, how to get started, how to find it, and how best to proceed into such a way of life. She shares very helpful books (affiliate): The New Topping Book https://amzn.to/3A3roGa and The New Bottoming Book https://amzn.to/3OHMmOX (Another very popular book by Janet Hardy and Dossie Easton is The Ethical Slut https://amzn.to/3ncHoOj ) Lola instructs us to learn first before we just venture into the world of kink. Be safe. Arm yourself with knowledge. Polyamory:Lola shares with us her journey to a poly life. It's a part of her sexual identity. She explains the difference of being open versus being poly, and types of relationships therein. She touches on the difference between the poly life and swinging as well.  Other books Lola recommended: Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage https://amzn.to/3OGiCli Sacred Kink: The Eightfold Paths of BDSM and Beyond https://amzn.to/3QJDQAK Connect with the podcast host Ruan Willow here: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Ruan's new book  Ruan's Beach Getaway: https://books2read.com/u/m2eE6d https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/c9fbb3e6-ddf1-11ec-b61c-5b8761feaf66 Get the first book Ruan's Cabin Getaway https://books2read.com/u/4jgBE2 https://books2read.com/u/medqrV My podcast has been picked up by Full Swap Radio! It's an internet radio channel you can listen to within an app. Search for the free app Full Swap Radio to listen to my podcast and other sex-positive podcast shows. So many great ones there and I'm honored to be in their lineup: https://fullswapradio.com/  My episodes are currently set to air on Tuesdays at 6:30 pm CST and Wednesdays at 8:30 am.  Hello! Welcome to my podcast!  Listen to this podcast episode to improve your sexuality, learn something new, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find erotica and romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care,  intimacy, for adu Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

24 Kesä 20221h 44min