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Ep 579: Ria Bentley's Journey in the Adult Entertainment World: Exploring Identity, Gender, Kinks, and Sex Work.  In this episode, Ruan Willow sits down with the talented Ria Bentley, a multi-award nominated trans performer. They discuss Ria's unique journey into the adult industry, Ria's experiences with OnlyFans, and the importance of safety and testing in such work. Ria shares personal insights, career trajectory, and the challenges of navigating relationships while being a performer. Tune in for a candid conversation about identity, creativity, and the evolving landscape of adult entertainment! Chapters: (01:38) How did you get into your current work? What was your trigger? (09:02) I obviously was bottoming for these guys. Um and so I was like I need to start finding some girls to work with (09:40) Are you attracted to both males and females or ... (11:14) When you're getting ready for a shoot, do you use music? (16:08) Admitting this, I still watch porn. Do they actually watch... (23:20) Do you have a lot of people pirating your stuff? (27:34) Do you think AI is going to affect the adult industry? (31:11) Do you think books are going to become obsolete, like, physical books (36:45) I moved from Texas to Las Vegas six months ago to transition (39:19) Do you share with your family what you're doing, or is it kind of secret (44:10) Speaking of safety, do you ever worry about HIV in sex work (51:16) Do you like to do kinky videos or are you more staying away from kinky (55:03) Ria was nominated for multiple awards this year (01:00:05) How do you choose what you're gonna wear when you shoot a scene (01:03:36) This has been so interesting. Is there anything we haven't talked about that you wanted to mention 🗣️ Quotes from Ria Bentley "I never dreamt that I'd be doing this just a few years ago." "The type of content I filmed, I never set out to film interracial stuff." "I have to really think about it and watch or know the co performers sort of what they're like on their scenes." "I still watch porn for both pleasure and to keep up with trends in the industry." "I do what I can and don't work with people that don't have the proper testing within this 14 days." Created with assistance from headliner ai http://riabentley.com/ https://x.com/TheRiaBentley Ruan's book Servicing the Work Men, Her Filthy Hotwife Adventures   Available in ebook, paperback https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingtheworkmenherfilthyhotwifeadventures  Discreet Cover paperback https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingtheworkmenthebeginning Audiobook https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingtheworkmenherfilthyhotwifeadventuresaudiobook Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

7 Maalis 1h 7min

Ep 577: Home Alone Neighbor BJ, Girlfriend Share by Cyra Wilde. When he's away, he wants her to play...but he's still gonna watch and enjoy! Erotica Excerpt written by Cyra Wilde and Narrated by podcast host and voiceover narrator Ruan Willow. About the Author:  Cyra Wilde enjoys manipulating words to create heart-pumping, blush-inducing stories that are achingly good and deeply satisfying. She likes experimenting with multiple tropes and crafting erotic fiction with heart. https://linktr.ee/cyrawilde Get the spicy book! Erotica excerpt from: the charity anthology fiction book Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE & DISASTER FIRE RELIEF https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology  (any money made from my affiliate link usage to buy the anthology will also be donated to the same charity). It is also in Kindle Unlimited (for a limited time). Not-So-Guilty Pleasures is a charity anthology benefiting World Central Kitchen (for help with the hurricane and other disaster relief). Enjoy storytelling erotic audio about spicy romance relationships, swingers, hot erotica stories, erotica romance, and self care for you! Take time to pay attention to your mental health sexual health. Pleasure is your birthright! Check out the winners of the Golden Pigtails Smut Awards! https://alexasommers.com/the-golden-pigtails-2024/ Audiobook mentioned in the episode: Filthy Fiction by Casey Donatello, narrated by Ruan Willow (affiliate link, podcast may earn a commission on sales, thanks for the support) https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/dirtydaydreams Free trial and book: https://www.audible.com/pd/B0D6H1345N/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWU-BK-ACX0-401780&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_401780_pd_us Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

5 Maalis 17min

Ep 576: A Deep Dive into Female Empowerment and Sexual Liberation with Suzannah Weiss. Join host Ruan Willow as she welcomes back the brilliantly eloquent Suzannah Weiss, author of the groundbreaking book "Subjectified: Becoming a Sexual Subject."  Get the book (affiliate link) https://amzn.to/41G86Tx In this episode, Suzannah shares her transformative journey from objecthood to embracing her identity as a sexual subject, exploring the complexities of female desire, societal expectations, and the importance of sexual autonomy. Listen as she reads a powerful excerpt from her book, reflecting on her experiences with body image, eating disorders, and the societal pressures that shape women's perceptions of their bodies.  Ruan and Susanna engage in a candid conversation about the normalization of women's pain, the orgasm gap, and the need for women to reclaim their sexuality for themselves. This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to understand the intersection of feminism, sexuality, and personal empowerment.  00:00 - Suzannah Weiss is the author of Subjectified Becoming a Sexual Subject 06:23 - My eating disorder was fueled by the perception that my body existed for others 13:21 - As I began college that fall, I took part in a few hookups 17:48 - What did that look like for you? Like, having sex to please other people 22:50 - When you were writing this book, was it very emotional to go through 28:30 - I think we need to do things for ourselves. I think we should explore our sexuality first 32:16 - The book is called Eve's Blessing, Uncovering the Lost Pleasure behind Female Pain 34:14 - I think some women don't realize they're having orgasms 39:26 - Other thing I want to ask you is if you ever thought about this. I think I have 41:12 - The second chapter is called the Size of My Body 48:00 - Are you finding men are willing to read your book about consent 50:09 - Susanna Weiss is working on a third book about sex and God Other topics discussed: Mental health, sexual health, Feminism, Body Positivity, Sex Education, Sexuality and Religion, personal growth. Show notes created with assistance by headliner dot app Connect with Suzannah Weiss: www.suzannahweiss.com Order my book Follow me on Twitter Follow me on Instagram Add me on LinkedIn Podcast Host Ruan Willow's new Spicy Open Door Romantasy Book, Rejecting Queendom https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/rejectingqueendom Request an ARC https://booksirens.com/book/N6YDP28/RQJ6RZD Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

28 Helmi 54min

Ep 574: Back Door, Taken at the Beach, A MFMMM Why Choose Erotica Excerpt by Darcy Winters, narrated by podcast host and audiobook narrator Ruan Willow. Triggers: this excerpt contains an anal sex scene, explicit sex and language.  About the Author Darcy Winters: Darcy Winters writes dark, reverse harem romance. She also writes small town romance as Eliza Black. https://books.darcywinters.com/ Get the spicy book! Erotica excerpt from: the charity anthology fiction book Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE & DISASTER FIRE RELIEF https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology  (any money made from my affiliate link usage to buy the anthology will also be donated to the same charity). It is also in Kindle Unlimited (for a limited time). Not-So-Guilty Pleasures is a charity anthology benefiting World Central Kitchen (for help with the hurricane and other disaster relief). Enjoy storytelling about spicy relationships, hot erotica stories, erotica romance, and self care for you! Take time to pay attention to your mental health sexual health. Pleasure is your birthright! Golden Pigtails FINALS VOTING INFO and VOTE HERE:  https://alexasommers.com/the-golden-pigtails-2024-finals/ The "It's Always Better Together" Award for Best Erotic Anthology 1. Season's Teasings Season's Teasings: Snowbound Seductions Anthology 2. Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology Featured Indie Bookstore: Booked and Hooked https://bookedandhooked.com/product-category/romance/ Ruan's Audiobook on Sale for $1.77 Never Say, Never Swing Apple ($1.99 on Apple) https://books.apple.com/audiobook/id1788656407 Nook Barnes and Noble Never Say, Never Swing: Friends to Lovers, Couples style. A First Time Swingers Story. by Ruan Willow, Motorboatin' Matt, Eric Weinstein | 2940194461844 | Audiobook (Digital) | Barnes & Noble® Chirp Never Say, Never Swing by Ruan Willow - Audiobook (No Subscription) Spotify Never Say, Never Swing: Friends to Lovers, Couples style. A First Time Swingers Story. | Audiobook on Spotify Indie Audiobook Deals See all the audiobook deals, some free! Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

25 Helmi 22min

Episode 573: A deep dive into the alluring world of BDSM relationships, impact play, and adult content creation with the enchanting Dani Synclair. Standing tall at 5'9", this ebony pro switch and OnlyFans siren shares her journey from personal exploration to professional success in the realm of kink. Discover how a simple foot fetish led Dani to embrace her desires and transform them into a fulfilling career. Connect with Dani: https://linktr.ee/dani.synclair In this episode, Dani opens up about her experiences in the dungeon, the connections she forms with clients, and the fascinating stories behind their fetishes. From the psychological aspects of kink to the importance of communication and consent, Dani reveals the intricate dynamics that make up her world. Learn about the various kinks she enjoys, her creative process for content creation, and how she navigates the complexities of being a public figure in the adult industry. With a focus on self-care, mental well-being, mental health, and sexual health, Dani emphasizes the importance of understanding one's own boundaries and desires. Whether you're curious about BDSM, an aspiring content creator, or simply interested in the stories that shape our intimate lives, this episode is packed with insights and inspiration. Tune in for an unforgettable conversation that celebrates the beauty of self-expression and connection. Quotes from Dani from the interview: "The most enjoyable part is meeting people, whether it's clients or other creators in the industry." "It's like a whole mental thing where it's not just the feeling of getting spanked." "Once your face is out there, you can't get rid of it. It is there forever." Timeline: 00:00 - Ruan Willow introduces Dani Synclair, a professional BDSM switch 02:55 - Do you find most people have like, a story that led to the fetish? 06:32 - Talk a little bit about the dungeon that you go to 10:04 - Now what kind of kinks do you engage in there 15:56 - If someone asked you what you like about spanking, what would you say 21:45 - How did you become involved in Impact play at such a young age 27:48 - I'm very claustrophobic, so that sounds very terrifying to me 31:00 - Do you do filming too? Yes. So I do the whole content creation 36:00 - Now is this when you first started doing this kind of thing 37:58 - Do you prefer one over the other? Doing the videos versus the live events 41:42 - Do you get a lot of piracy or do you just have no idea 44:07 - Do you have any regrets of what you've done so far 46:48 - Do you do a lot of editing yourself? Yeah, I do 48:42 - The future 50:07 - When you're traveling it's literally just for work 52:56 - How do you get your brain ready for a scene before you do it Show notes headliner dot app Ruan's new open door Romantasy novella, Rejecting Queendom, Book 3 in the Arching Hunger Series is releasing soon! Reserve your copy here: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/rejectingqueendom Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

21 Helmi 58min

Episode 571: MFM Big Junk at the Gym Hotwife Erotica Excerpt by Max Sebastian.  Author Bio: Max Sebastian has written more than 20 novels in two decades, specializing in the thrilling erotic adventures of insatiable couples seeking to challenge the conventions of monogamy. Max is originally from London, in the UK, but now lives with his family in the United States. https://maxsebastian.net/ Get the spicy book! Erotica excerpt from: the charity anthology fiction book Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE & DISASTER FIRE RELIEF https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology  (any money made from my affiliate link usage to buy the anthology will also be donated to the same charity). It is also in Kindle Unlimited (for a limited time). Not-So-Guilty Pleasures is a charity anthology benefiting World Central Kitchen (for help with the hurricane and other disaster relief). Enjoy storytelling about spicy relationships, hot erotica stories, erotica romance, and self care for you! Take time to pay attention to your mental health sexual health. Pleasure is your birthright! Golden Pigtails FINALS VOTING INFO and VOTE HERE:  https://alexasommers.com/the-golden-pigtails-2024-finals/ The "It's Always Better Together" Award for Best Erotic Anthology 1. Season's Teasings Season's Teasings: Snowbound Seductions Anthology 2. Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE & DISASTER FIRE RELIEF https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology Other links from the episode: Heart of the South Crafting Company bookstore https://heart-of-the-south-crafting-co.square.site/about Bookshop Org Indie Bookstores https://bookshop.org/ Servicing the Work Men Spicy Hotwife Fiction by Ruan Willow (excerpt at the end of the episode) Book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingtheworkmenherfilthyhotwifeadventures SFW book cover version: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingtheworkmenthebeginning Audiobook https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingtheworkmenherfilthyhotwifeadventuresaudiobook Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

18 Helmi 22min

Season 5, Episode 570: Audiobook Narrating with Andria Mae Ali Dane from Closed Door to Dark & Spicy Guest Bio:  Andria Mae (also Ali Dane) is a narrator who snuck into the audiobook party in 2021 and never looked back. With a passion for the art of novel to audio adaptations, she embraces everything from sweet and fluffy romances to dark, spicy, and even nerdy adventures. When she's not in the recording booth, she's tending to the tiniest of hobby farms, full of quirky animals that bring her immeasurable joy. Andria is devoted to transforming written words into immersive audio experiences, capturing every emotion and nuance along the way.  Website: www.alidane.com Linktree: https://wlo/link/@RWTLO Instagram: @andria.mae.audiobooks and @ali.dane.audiobooks Lemon8: @ali.dane.audiobooks Threads: @ali.dane.audiobooks BlueSky: @Ali-Dane-Audiobooks Episode Summary: With a background in vocal performance and a passion for storytelling, Andria shares her journey from podcasting to audiobook narration, revealing how she discovered her love for this unique art form. In this episode, Ruan and Andria dive into the nuances of narrating different genres, from closed-door YA to spicy romance. They discuss the challenges of voice acting, including how to portray male characters and the intricacies of duet narration. Andria opens up about her creative process, the importance of preparation, and how she navigates the evolving landscape of audiobook production.  As they explore the world of romance and the significance of representation in storytelling, you'll hear about Andria's favorite projects, including her recent work in the omegaverse and her collaborations with indie authors. 1. Introduction to Andria May and her journey into audiobook narration 2. The evolution of Andria's voice acting and narrating styles 3. Challenges and techniques for portraying male characters 4. Synchronous vs. asynchronous duet narration 5. Insights into the creative process and preparation for narration 6. Discussion on the representation of diverse voices in romance 7. Andria's favorite projects and upcoming releases 8. The impact of societal changes on book covers and marketing Some of Andria Mae's Audiobooks (affiliate links, commissions may be made on purchases that support the podcast, thank you!) The Summer Playbook https://amzn.to/41dbGp0 A Dose of Pretty Poison https://amzn.to/3EOt2j3 My Hot Best Friend is an Irish Vampire https://amzn.to/42UFBU8 Podcast Host Ruan's recent Audiobooks: Never Say, Never Swing https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/neversayneverswingaudiobook Protectors: A Warrior's Requiem, Chronicles of Protectors https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/protectorsaudiobook Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

14 Helmi 59min

Ep 568: The Boy Toy Next Door by Lara Annette, A Reverse Age Gap MF Erotica Excerpt, narrated by Podcast Host Ruan Willow. About the Author: Lara Annette is old enough to know better, and young enough not to care. Born in the sultry heat of Mexico City, she's lived in Canada since she was a toddler, and still hasn't acclimatized. So in order to keep warm during the long winter months, she started channeling her Latina passion into hot and steamy romance. Get the spicy book! Erotica excerpt from: the charity anthology fiction book Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE & DISASTER FIRE RELIEF https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology  (any money made from my affiliate link usage to buy the anthology will also be donated to the same charity). It is also in Kindle Unlimited (for a limited time). Anthology Blurb: We've got a smorgasbord of steamy delights that'll make your toes curl and your cheeks flush. From forbidden fruit to second helpings of love, we've got more flavors than your local ice cream shop - and trust us, you'll want to sample them all. Whether you like your romance sweet and subtle or hot enough to set off smoke alarms, we've got a story to tickle your fancy (and maybe a few other places). So go ahead, indulge in these not-so-guilty pleasures. After all, it's for charity - you're practically a saint! Not-So-Guilty Pleasures is a charity anthology benefiting World Central Kitchen (for help with the hurricane and other disaster relief). Enjoy storytelling about spicy relationships, hot erotica stories, erotica romance, and self care for you! Take time to pay attention to your mental health sexual health. Pleasure is your birthright! Golden Pigtails VOTING INFO:  https://alexasommers.com/the-golden-pigtails-2024-semifinals/ The "It's Always Better Together" Award for Best Erotic Anthology 1. Season's Teasings Season's Teasings: Snowbound Seductions Anthology 2. Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE & DISASTER FIRE RELIEF https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology 3. The "Going Hands Free" Award for Erotic Audiobook Emma's Policy ON SALE NOW FOR ONLY $5.99 AT https://alltheseroadworks.com/product/emmas-policy-audiobook-narrated-by-ruan-willow/  Spring Break and Stranded at a Cabin with Her Best Friend's Brothers Plus 6 Men, Book 1 by RuAnn Willhoe  book 1 for FREE! (taboo version where it's the brothers) use code 4ZMSZ through 2/26 on Smashwords at Spring Break and Stranded at a Cabin with Her Best Friend's Brothers Plus 6 Men Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

11 Helmi 20min