I was 13 & No One Protected Me [ft. Ray]

I was 13 & No One Protected Me [ft. Ray]

In this episode, Ray shares her story of being abused at 13, and what happened when the people and institutions meant to protect her didn’t.

This conversation explores coercion, fear, and trauma at a young age, as well as the lasting impact of being disbelieved, silenced, and pushed aside by a school system more focused on protecting itself than protecting a child. Ray shares what it’s like to grow up without language for what happened, and how institutional failure can be just as damaging as the abuse itself.

If you were hurt when you were young. If the adults or institutions meant to protect you, failed. You’re not alone here. This episode is for you. Grab a blanket and get cozy. Cheers!

Follow Ray on socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bluraybeyond/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@bluraybeyond

Book mentioned: https://a.co/d/dZAuhkE

Get Educated: www.rainn.org/statistics/victims-sexual-violence

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