223. How to Stop Feeling Desperate When Dating (throwback)

223. How to Stop Feeling Desperate When Dating (throwback)

Being single is treated like something to escape, like something's wrong with you. But what if we stopped thinking of it that way? In this episode, I'm sharing the exact exercise I did after leaving my 6-year relationship that completely changed how I approached dating. I'm sharing the reflection questions I used to build my own security while actively dating, so you can do the same. This episode will help you re-frame urgency and desperation around just finding your person already.

REFLECTION QUESTIONS:

  • If I don't like it here, where should I live?
  • How do I want to spend my time? What do I want my lifestyle to be?
  • How will I make my life meaningful without a romantic relationship?
  • What kind of friend and daughter do I want to be?
  • How will I show up for the people in my life?
  • How do I want to spend my money and what are my financial goals as a single person?
  • If I don't meet anyone in the next few years, will I choose to have kids on my own?
  • If I don't get married, what does the best version of my life look like?


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294. 5 Tiny Habits That Will Transform Your Dating Life

294. 5 Tiny Habits That Will Transform Your Dating Life

In this episode, I'm sharing 5 tiny habits that can help you get better dating results, feel more confident and in control, and make dating a little more enjoyable. We’ll talk about how to make decisi...

1 Syys 30min

293. Why What Happens After The Date Matters Most (First Date Vibe Check)

293. Why What Happens After The Date Matters Most (First Date Vibe Check)

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28 Elo 42min

292. Getting Back Into Dating? How to Start Without Losing Your Mind (Throwback)

292. Getting Back Into Dating? How to Start Without Losing Your Mind (Throwback)

Whether you’re newly single, coming out of a long-term relationship, or you’ve simply been out of the dating world for years, getting back into dating can feel overwhelming. The apps have changed, the...

25 Elo 25min

291. Are No Red Flags a Green Flag? (First Date Vibe Check)

291. Are No Red Flags a Green Flag? (First Date Vibe Check)

If someone doesn't have any red flags, is that a green flag? This is the third episode of First Date Vibe Check, where I bring on listeners who are actively dating to walk through a recent first date ...

21 Elo 35min

290. You Don't Need Certainty to Make a Good Dating Decision (Dating Dilemmas)

290. You Don't Need Certainty to Make a Good Dating Decision (Dating Dilemmas)

How much information do you actually need before you make a decision in your dating life? In this episode, I’m answering four real dating dilemmas that all come down to that one question.We’re talking...

18 Elo 27min

289. Is It Bad If A First Date Feels Too Easy? (First Date Vibe Check)

289. Is It Bad If A First Date Feels Too Easy? (First Date Vibe Check)

What if a first date is too easy and comfortable? This is the second episode of First Date Vibe Check, where I bring on listeners who are actively dating to walk through a recent first date with me, f...

14 Elo 40min

288. Why Relationships Keep Ending at 3 Months (Is It You or Them?)

288. Why Relationships Keep Ending at 3 Months (Is It You or Them?)

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