3862: Stop Making Resolutions (and Just Start) by Jay Harrington of Life And Whim on Consistent Progress

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3040: Stephen Guise of MiniHabits.com discusses the importance of flexible thinking in his book "Elastic Habits," highlighting its role as a key driver of behavior change and happiness. He contrasts rigid thinking, which leads to negative thought patterns and emotional traps, with flexible thinking, which allows for adaptability and positive behavioral shifts. Guise emphasizes that mental flexibility is essential for emotional health, enabling individuals to break free from harmful cycles and pivot towards more productive and beneficial thoughts and actions. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://minihabits.com/is-flexible-thinking-the-key-to-a-happy-life/ Quotes to ponder: "Flexibility activates power." "Mental flexibility, or flexibility of thought is the ability to think laterally." "Mental flexibility allows us to escape these harmful thought patterns." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

13 Tammi 202410min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3039: Courtney Carver with BecomingMinimalist.com explores the concept of "Living in the Land of Enough," contrasting it with the excessive consumer culture of modern society. She provides seven actionable steps to embrace a simpler, more contented life, including saving money, taking time for oneself, disconnecting from digital devices, eating real food, decluttering, finding inexpensive entertainment, and practicing gratitude. This minimalist approach is aimed at finding fulfillment and happiness in what one already has, rather than in constant acquisition and comparison. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.becomingminimalist.com/living-in-the-land-of-enough/ Quotes to ponder: "Earth provides enough to satisfy every man’s need, but not every man’s greed." – Mahatma Gandhi "There is no risk involved by visiting the land of enough." "Enough, really is enough." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

12 Tammi 20249min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3038: Marc Chernoff of MarcandAngel.com illuminates the path to embracing and loving an ordinary life, detailing four practical steps for acceptance and appreciation. The article emphasizes the importance of abandoning the pursuit of a "perfect life," acknowledging the naturalness of disappointment, and focusing on making the best of the present moment. It also highlights the preciousness of each day, urging readers to appreciate their current circumstances, recognize their personal growth, and find gratitude in the lessons life offers. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.marcandangel.com/2019/10/21/4-steps-to-loving-your-ordinary-life/ Quotes to ponder: "You will never be as good as you think you should be." Episode references: Books by Marc and Angel Chernoff on Amazon: "1000+ Little Habits of Happy, Successful Relationships": Amazon Link​​. "Getting Back to Happy: Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Reality, and Turn Your Trials into Triumphs": Amazon Link​​. "The Good Morning Journal: Powerful Prompts and Reflections to Start Every Day": Amazon Link​​. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

11 Tammi 202411min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3037: "The Decision to Be Remarkable" advocates for a proactive approach to life, emphasizing the need to break free from mediocrity by choosing to be extraordinary. It suggests actionable steps like ceasing excuses, taking responsibility, questioning norms, pursuing passionate work, living one's own life, striving for higher goals, and embracing the journey despite challenges. The article underscores the addictive nature of excellence, the support from like-minded communities and unexpected sources, and the expanding vision that comes with pursuing remarkable goals. The key is to commit to being remarkable and not to expect universal understanding or acceptance of this path. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://chrisguillebeau.com/the-decision-to-be-remarkable/ Quotes to ponder: "If you want to break out of the mold of average, the first thing you need to do is to make a decision to be radically different." "Stop making excuses. Just stop." "Remarkable people are all minorities in a world of average living." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

10 Tammi 20249min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3036:  The article offers nine insightful tips for effective decision-making, emphasizing the importance of recognizing life lessons, gathering complete information, appreciating the privilege of choice, expressing gratitude, understanding the value of saying "no," the power of pausing, reducing self-induced pressure, relying on internal judgment, and accepting that good decisions might not always feel comfortable. These principles aid in navigating the complexities of choices, whether big or small, by fostering a balanced and thoughtful approach. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://mindbodywise.com/blog/9-helpful-hints-about-making-good-decisions/ Quotes to ponder: "No 'wrong decisions'. What if there were no 'wrong decisions' and only life lessons?" Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

9 Tammi 20249min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3035:  Cal Newport of CalNewport.com delves into the concept of digital minimalism, advocating a thoughtful approach to technology use. He draws parallels with the minimalism movement, emphasizing intentional use of digital tools to enhance life's value. Newport challenges the default embrace of new technologies, urging a focus on activities that truly matter, while cautioning against digital clutter and the passive consumption of online content. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://calnewport.com/on-digital-minimalism/ Quotes to ponder: "Digital minimalism is a philosophy that helps you question what digital communication tools add the most value to your life." "There’s an infinite selection of activities in the world that might bring some value." "Be wary of tools that solve a problem that didn’t exist before the tool." Episode references: The Minimalists by Joshua Fields Millburn, T.K. Coleman, and Ryan Nicodemus: https://theminimalists.com​​. Zen Habits by Leo Babauta: https://zenhabits.net​​. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

8 Tammi 202416min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3034: Dr. Lisa Firestone of PsychAlive.org explores the nuanced pursuit of happiness, emphasizing the importance of differentiating from societal and familial influences to discover authentic joy. Her insights delve into breaking free from past patterns and developing a personal value system, guiding listeners towards a deeper understanding of true happiness. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.psychalive.org/how-to-find-your-happiness/ Quotes to ponder: "Happiness doesn’t come from filling our days with fun things. Studies show that the happiest people are those who seek meaning as opposed to just pleasure." "Don’t ask yourself what the world needs. Ask yourself what makes you come alive and then go do that. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

7 Tammi 202412min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3033:  Isaac Morehouse's insightful article challenges the pursuit of equality, emphasizing the natural and morally neutral state of inequality. Morehouse argues that striving for equality, especially in the context of family and societal norms, is not only futile but harmful. He distinguishes between destructive favoritism and the essential, fair application of rules, advocating for the latter as a healthier approach to acknowledging and engaging with innate disparities. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://isaacmorehouse.com/2013/03/20/inequality-vs-favoritism/ Quotes to ponder: "Inequality is inescapable and morally neutral. There is no virtue in trying to eradicate it, and it makes no sense to talk of reducing it." "Equality between individuals is as impossible as equality between 2 and 3, and degrees of inequality are entirely subjective; a matter of perception, different for all observers and participants." "Favoritism is when the spoken or unspoken rules of the house are not consistently applied." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

7 Tammi 20249min