285 - How to End Codependency with Your Clients

I am recording in a new way today because I’ve given myself the permission to know the season I am in. What I’ve learned is that I am much more inspired when I’m not in the home office so I’m driving! Today’s episode was inspired by a recent mastermind conversation and it’s something I’m no stranger to. In any client relationship, there is sometimes a level of codependency. Sometimes, it doesn’t really impact us in a major way, but it’s truly unnecessary. So in this go-with-the-flow episode, we’re diving into what causes that codependency and what we can do about it. Show Notes: [2:28] - If you are doing a good job at what you do and you are serving people, it is normal and expected that your rates will increase. [4:06] - You may come across clients that are triggered by how you run your business and if they have an issue, they are just not your client. [5:45] - There are unnecessary elements of codependency in the client relationship. [7:25] - Elyse has had the most income, the best clients, and the most in flow, it was when there was nothing that needed to be rearranged when it comes to boundaries. [8:56] - We do not own our clients. [10:03] - Our only job is to show up and deliver our best. [11:49] - When we understand that clients are not a source and you are in your inner power, if a client leaves, the money is going to come in another way. [13:50] - We need to sell from wholeness. [14:59] - So much of Elyse’s self worth was tied into her success in sales. [16:42] - When we approach our clients from a place of loving our own lives, then you’re going to naturally draw people in. [19:30] - Elyse lists the things that will happen when you are in this energy. [20:54] - Let Elyse know if the vibe of this unique podcast was something you’d like to hear more often. Links and Resources:

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