156. Former Division I player and coach Alli Bills

Midseason can feel heavy for girl basketball players. The excitement of the season has worn off, bodies are tired, roles may feel unclear, and confidence can quietly slip. In Episode 156 of the Especially for Athletes, former Division I player and coach Alli Bills speaks directly to athletes living in that tension—and offers perspective that is both grounding and empowering . Alli begins with an honest challenge: "If you want to be great, you have to ask yourself—do I really want to be great?"Midseason is often when players feel discouraged by constant correction, and she reminds athletes that growth doesn't mean you suddenly forgot how to play. "You started the season thinking you were pretty good, and by this point you feel like you can't do anything right," she explains. Her counsel is to pause and intentionally reconnect with what you do well. "I want you to write down all the things you know you're great at," she says, emphasizing that belief is the foundation of real development. One of the most powerful parts of the conversation centers on self-talk and consistency. "You are not going to get better if you are not visualizing it or in the gym or in the weight room—it won't happen," Alli states plainly. She encourages athletes to build simple, repeatable routines and anchor positive self-talk to physical actions. "You cannot think of two things at once," she teaches. "So choose the positive one." Whether it's at the free-throw line or during a tough practice, those routines become a mental reset button that brings confidence back when pressure is highest. Alli also reminds players that roles matter—even when they don't show up on the stat sheet. Sharing stories from her coaching career, she highlights athletes who may not have played much but made an enormous impact through effort, energy, and gratitude. "The impact that you can have in any role is up to you—and it can be significant," she says. Midseason is not the time to shrink or disengage; it's a time to lean in, prepare your body, and be ready. "When your number is called, you don't want to question if you're ready—you want to know you are." Her message to every girl basketball player is hopeful and demanding at the same time: have a vision, stay consistent, be where your feet are, and don't fear failure. "The only true failure is not trying," Alli reminds us. Midseason isn't something to survive—it's an opportunity to grow into the player and person you're becoming. To hear Alli's full wisdom, stories, and practical advice, we invite you to listen to Episode 156 of the Especially for Athletes podcast ⸻ Especially for Athletes: • Website: https://e4a.org • Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/EspeciallyForAthletes/ • X: https://x.com/E4Afamily • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/especiallyforathletes/ • YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCmbWc7diAvstLMfjBL-bMMQ Join the conversation using #TheSportlightPodcast ⸻ Credits: Hosted by Shad Martin Produced by Shad Martin and IMAGINATE STUDIO