Infidelity, Trauma Bonds & When To Walk Away From a 20-Year Marriage  To Be Better Podcast S4 E3
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Infidelity, Trauma Bonds & When To Walk Away From a 20-Year Marriage To Be Better Podcast S4 E3

Part 2
In this episode of the To Be Better podcast, Chris and Peaches dive deep into a raw, unfiltered 20-year marriage story filled with childhood trauma, family chaos, serial infidelity, emotional cheating, open relationships, and failed poly experiments. They read a powerful email from a wife questioning whether she’s still compatible with her husband after decades of betrayal, gaslighting, and weaponized empathy, and explore how trauma bonds, chaos addiction, and unhealed wounds keep people trapped in relationships that no longer feel safe. Along the way they tackle topics like alexithymia, ADHD, autism, nervous system responses, hypervigilance, and how undiagnosed neurodivergence can impact communication, trust, intimacy, and long-term commitment.
You’ll hear blunt, practical relationship advice on rebuilding or finally walking away: when to stop giving more chances, how to protect your peace, what emotional cheating actually looks like, how to set non-negotiable boundaries, and why “life experience over degrees” matters in real-world marriage problems. Chris and Peaches break down victim accountability, people pleasing, choosing stability over chaos, and how to create a truly monogamous relationship after years of betrayal. If you’re searching for honest conversations about marriage, infidelity recovery, long-term relationships, couples communication, spiritual growth, and becoming a better partner, this is your episode.

Disclaimer: We are not professionals. This podcast is opinioned based and from life experience. This is for entertainment purposes only. Opinions helped by our guests may not reflect our own. But we love a good conversation.

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4 Emails - A bonus cast

4 Emails - A bonus cast

"She lacks motivation and sex drive.""My child and my s/o fight, help?""Why is it so hard to find good people?""6 years of no intimacy. I think I am done."To email us. 2bebetterco@gmail,comPatreon.com...

2 Helmi 20231h 45min

2 Be Better Podcast EP.07

2 Be Better Podcast EP.07

High value persons? Emails, Hormones, Graves Disease?Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/2-be-better--5828421/support.

30 Tammi 20231h 45min

2 Be Better EP.06

2 Be Better EP.06

2 Be Better Podcast. Episode 6. Subscribe to our patreon. www.patreon.com/2bebetterBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/2-be-better--5828421/support.

23 Tammi 20232h 4min

Kids report cards/check ins

Kids report cards/check ins

This is a subscriber submitted list that was to good not to share with you allBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/2-be-better--5828421/support.

20 Tammi 202314min

2 Be Better EP.05

2 Be Better EP.05

Reading some emails and catching up. Check out our patreon. www.patreon.com/2bebetterBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/2-be-better--5828421/support.

15 Tammi 20231h 34min

Khrys on Confidence

Khrys on Confidence

Catching up, a bonus cast.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/2-be-better--5828421/support.

9 Tammi 202340min

Catching up with us

Catching up with us

This is not our usual content. We hope you enjoy it. If you have questions or want to hear more of this type of content, email us 2bebetterco@gmail.comBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.s...

5 Tammi 202343min

Khrys' good woman list. Bonus cast

Khrys' good woman list. Bonus cast

You asked, she provided. We discuss some things and add an update at the end.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/2-be-better--5828421/support.

4 Tammi 202346min

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