Surface Level Relationships Might Actually Be a Good Idea

Surface Level Relationships Might Actually Be a Good Idea

In this episode, Whitney challenges the idea that all family relationships need to be deep, emotional, and vulnerable. “Strategic authenticity” is the idea of intentionally choosing what parts of yourself to share with certain family members. She discusses how to tell if a surface level dynamic is even possible for you. Surface level relationships don’t have to be about being fake rather protecting yourself while maintaining a sense of connection without full estrangement.


Whitney Goodman is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) and the founder of Calling Home, a membership community that helps people navigate complex family dynamics and break harmful cycles.


Have a question for Whitney? Send a voice memo or email to whitney@callinghome.co


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This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice.


9:59 When a surface level relationship is worth trying

13:04 Cost benefit analysis of relationships

20:29 Temporarily surface level

22:26 Should I tell them I want a surface level relationship

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