
I'm Not OK
In this episode, we talk about the impulse to cover up or not cover up your own suffering. Justin describes some mental health difficulties she's been dealing with and her fears around letting it affe...
29 Maalis 202232min

I Know We Just Met But... Want to Move to Sudan? with Rebecca Waring Crane and Ken Crane
In episode 7 we speak with Justin's parents! We explore the idea of being friends, or even best friends with your romantic partner. Ken and Rebecca recount the tumult of getting married after only k...
22 Maalis 202253min

Can I Boop Your Nose 3 Times? with Mia Schachter
In this episode we are lucky enough to speak with The Consent Wizard themself: Mia Schachter. We discuss the important distinction between wanting to do something vs. being willing to do it, and lear...
15 Maalis 20221h 4min

Monogamy is Not a Fix for Jealousy, with Emily Paul
On this episode Mutual Aid Organizer and Technologist Emily Paul joins us as we discuss common misconceptions about Non-monogamy. We also explore how addressing smaller, "less important" tensions in ...
1 Maalis 202234min

The Comfortable Lie of "I'm Not Like That"
A relationship doesn't exist in a vacuum, but when you're in it, it can be hard to see the larger cultural context. After some uncomfortable and illuminating dialogue with listeners and friends, Dan ...
22 Helmi 202228min

Permission To Not Be Warm and Fuzzy
This episode drops you into a tense moment between Justin and Dan. One thing led to another and they both ended up TRIGGERED. Listen as they process their respective inner monologues, feelings, and ...
15 Helmi 202239min

Life Makes You A Leader, with Ramesh Srivastava
Our friend and brilliant musician Ramesh Srivastava joins us as we dive into his journey launching the band VOXTROT in his early 20s. We explore the roles he's played in relationships, what it means ...
8 Helmi 202242min

You're Stuck There Forever Until You Acknowledge The Feeling
In their first episode, Dan and Justin interview each other about how each of them developed ideas of healthy vs unhealthy relationships early on in life. They explore Justin's confusion as a teen ab...
1 Helmi 202234min





















