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224 - Transforming Relationships Through the Enneagram with Christa Hardin

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In this episode of the Relationship Renovation Podcast, hosts Tarah and EJ Kerwin sit down with Christa Hardin, renowned therapist, author, and founder of Enneagram and Marriage. Christa dives deep into the power of the Enneagram as a tool for couples’ growth—unpacking how knowing your type, and your partner’s, doesn’t just explain your quirks but opens the door to more compassion, stronger communication, and real healing. Whether you’re new to the Enneagram or already a type enthusiast, Christa shares actionable insights, intriguing stories from the therapy room, and relatable examples of how the Enneagram fast-tracks understanding and connection.

Listeners will walk away with a clear overview of all nine Enneagram types, practical first steps to begin their own Enneagram journey, and surprising tips for applying these insights in everyday life and even in the bedroom! Christa’s approach is warm, research-based, and refreshingly down-to-earth, making this episode a must-listen for anyone seeking fresh hope and new tools for a thriving partnership. If you’re ready for more connection, less conflict, and a better understanding of both yourself and your partner, hit play on this episode—you’ll want to share it with every couple you know!

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