Why You Shut Down Just When He Gets Close

The process of dating, online dating, going on dates, talking to men—that is like exposure, the psychological technique for healing anxiety.

If you’re terrified of elevators, you get into the elevator and you deal with your anxiety from a very knowledgeable place until, guess what? The anxiety reaches a level… and then it goes down, if you’re paying attention.

So as a Siren, as a modern Siren on Siren Island, learning these techniques to track yourself, you will start to heal yourself through the process of dating and being in a relationship—because it’s those moments of being triggered that are the healing moments.

So I’m hoping this is exciting you and giving you more reason to get more deeply involved in this relationship concept, because it will help heal your codependent survival instincts on all levels.

Which is going to elevate you financially. It’s going to elevate your work—because your bosses are 99% sure to be in masculine energy, whether or not they’re men or women.

Yes—women bosses are totally in their masculine energy.

And we need to open the door for you to be a leader in your field, in your feminine.

And that means retraining yourself—and everyone around you.

So this is pretty momentous.

But guess what?

It’s the easiest route compared to the one you’re doing now.

The one you’re doing now involves thinking your way through it, trying to manipulate other people into loving you and liking you in order for you to survive—which is why we choose unavailable men, men who are confused, men who don’t know what they want.

When it’s clear as a bell what you want…

Yes, it just makes me—yes—tear up here.

It’s like I’m working against myself.

You’re working against yourself if you try to pretend like it’s not important to you and say, “I’m just going to decenter them.”

No.

So what I want you to do is start noticing—with The Catch.

There are six Love Forever Tools. If you’re not on Siren Island and hearing this, if you’re not in my Siren world—get in it somehow so you can get the Six Love Forever Tools.

Those will change your life in—what—10 pages?

So the first one is The Catch, the first of the six. The Catch means awareness.

This is everything you see out there—Eckhart Tolle, being a mystic as I perceive myself, the magic of life itself, all of those things… the intuition.

Siren Island is here: https://www.coachrori.com/lp/siren-island-feminine-energy-course-and-community/

Love, Rori