
EPS 48: Maybe You Were Never “That Person”
Maybe you were never “too emotional.”Maybe you were never “low sex drive.”Maybe you were never “unaffectionate.”Maybe the relationship, the environment, and the people around you were suppressing who ...
22 Touko 57min

EPS 46 - The 5 Levels of Conflict (Hot Sauce Edition)
Most relationships don’t fail because of one big moment. They fail because people skip steps.We broke conflict into 5 levels:MisunderstandingDisagreementAgree to disagreeArgumentFightHere’s the truth:...
31 Maalis 47min

EPS 45 - “Just Friends” Is a Lie You Tell Before It Becomes a Problem
Nobody cheats out of nowhere. It starts small—memes, late-night talks, “just a friend.”This episode cuts through the illusion: most “friendships” aren’t neutral—they’re delayed decisions. One person i...
20 Maalis 52min

EPS 44 — Calm Love Feels Boring… Until You Realize It’s Secure
If your relationship feels peaceful, do you trust it—or do you try to create chaos just to feel something?In this episode, we break down why drama feels exciting, why jealousy is usually insecurity in...
16 Helmi 57min

EPS 43 It’s Not the Porn, It’s the Silence
Porn isn’t the real conversation—avoidance is. In this episode, we cut through the stigma and talk honestly about habits, desensitization, and why secrecy does more damage to relationships than the be...
24 Tammi 53min

Eps 42 You’re Not Lazy, You’re Avoiding Something
Procrastination isn’t laziness. It’s emotional avoidance dressed up as “being busy.”In this episode, we break down why stress shuts your brain down, how fear keeps you stuck, and why the story you tel...
14 Tammi 49min

Eps 41 Christmas Clarity - Sometime Christmas Hits Different
This Christmas episode strips the holiday down to what actually matters. Joel and Me talk honestly about memories, loss, family, traditions, and why the holidays amplify both joy and grief. They unpac...
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