"I work with Psychopaths"- This is What They Tell Me About How They Target Women | Aishia Grevenberg PT 1

If you've ever second-guessed yourself around a charming dude, felt your boundaries melting as soon as someone smiles just right, or wondered “how do I spot manipulators and protect myself?”—this is the episode you NEED. I sat down with Aishia Grevenberg, a phenomenal therapist, survivor and absolute badass, to peel back the curtain on narcissists, psychopaths, manipulators, and all the ways they scan for vulnerability and test your boundaries. Aishia dives DEEP into life lessons from working with men in prisons, recognizing warning signs from the first interaction, and what she learned from surviving her own abusive relationship. We tackle the real science behind manipulation, why simply “being yourself” is actually your superpower, and why emotional responses are every abuser’s favorite tool. All the secrets these guys DON’T want you to know? She gives it to you raw, from the inside. If you want to understand predators, feel secure in your space, and finally stop second-guessing your gut, part one gives you everything you need. SHOWNOTES Manipulators & Narcissists: Why They Don’t Have a Type Life Lessons from Las Vegas Jail: How To Assert Your Power No Matter How Scared You Feel Boundary Testing: If You Budge, They Got You What Vulnerability Looks Like to a Predator Presenting Your Best Self? Why That’s Actually Risky Emotional Manipulation Is Always Intentional FBI-Level Mirroring Tactics: How Predators Manufacture Intimacy Real-Life Story: How Kids Spot Your Weakness Consistency Is Your Armor Wanting the Fantasy vs. Owning Reality The “Change Him” Myth: R&B, Love Songs & Losing Yourself Your Responsibility: Keeping Yourself Safe When Abuse Includes Pets—Cats, Shelters, and What Really Keeps Women Trapped Toxic Therapy: Danger Lurking in Couples Counseling Mental Gymnastics—Linguistic Jenga & Minimizing Abuse Why Leaving Means Losing Everything—The Hardest Part Getting Up, Getting Involved—Old Lady Bonnet Energy Why “Help” Isn’t Enough—The Secret Power In Community Strangulation: Why It’s The Most Deadly “Gesture” Thank you to our sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Cozy Earth: code COZYLISA for 20% off https://cozyearth.com OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa Follow Aishia Grevenberg: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mytherapistlife Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mytherapistlife/ FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices