Episode 221: Shemessy and Whorsha

This episode, Eamon & Merlin talk Porsha accusing Kelli of dipping in the married pond as she dips in the lady pond on Real Housewives of Atlanta; Rulla having to deal with Jo-Ellen plus a spineless husband on Real Housewives of Rhode Island; whether Brittany’s new man has too many red flags on The Valley; Dorit’s trip to the lions den ending with a mauling on Real Housewives of Beverly Hills; and America’s Next Drag Superstar being crowned on RuPaul’s Drag Race.

7:09 - Real Housewives of Atlanta: Season 17: Episode 02
42:03 - Real Housewives of Rhode Island: Season 01: Episode 03
1:18:56 - The Valley: Season 03: Episode 03
1:50:25 - Real Housewives of Beverly Hills: Season 15: Episode 18
2:33:06 - RuPaul's Drag Race: Season 18: Episode 16

We are Eamon and Merlin, a queer married couple from Texas living in Pittsburgh, PA. We love reality television, wrestling, drag queens, and pretty much anything that can be called even kinda gay. A Gay & His Enby is a podcast where we talk about everything we love in terms of media and pop culture; everything thats gay and gay adjacent; basically all the conversations we have in our living room we are now putting in front of a microphone and on the internet for you.

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