Your Brain Is Lying to You About Rejection — Dr. Tom on the New Neuroscience That Explains Why | Rejection Rehab Ep. 25
Rejection Rehab24 Joulu 2025

Your Brain Is Lying to You About Rejection — Dr. Tom on the New Neuroscience That Explains Why | Rejection Rehab Ep. 25

Rejection doesn’t mean they don’t want you.


Your brain just thinks it does.


In this week’s Rejection Section, EMMY winning producer Dr. Tom breaks down a brand-new 2024 neuroscience study published in PNAS showing that rejection isn’t just emotional pain — it’s your brain learning.


And here’s the twist:


Your brain tracks two different signals after rejection —

who actually values you, and who simply gave you a yes.

When those get mixed up, you chase the wrong people, doubt the wrong relationships, and quietly erode your confidence.


In this episode, you’ll learn:


  • 🧠 Why the brain treats rejection as information, not judgment

  • 🔍 The difference between relational value and reward outcomes — and why confusing them hurts confidence

  • ⚠️ How your brain overvalues people who give intermittent “yeses”

  • 💔 Why rejection feels personal even when it isn’t

  • 💪 How to use rejection to build clarity, self-trust, and lasting confidence

👉 If rejection ever makes you spiral, overinterpret, or question your worth — this episode will permanently change how you see it.


🎙️Host: Dr. Tom Instagram | LinkedIn | X


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