
266. The Check-In Questions I Swear By + Tips For Starting
Communication is the most important thing in a relationship, but no one tells you what good communication actually looks like in practice. In this episode, I'm getting into relationship check-ins: the...
26 Touko 31min

265. Yes, You Can Become More Secure While Actively Dating w/ Trevor Hanson
I'm chatting with Trevor Hanson, a licensed marriage and family therapist. He and his team at The Art Of Healing help people move from anxious attachment to secure attachment in a structured, results-...
22 Touko 53min

264. Why They Seem Emotionally Available Until Things Get Real (Dating Dilemmas)
Emotional availability is one of the most desired traits in a partner, but it's so hard to find. In this episode, I'm walking through four real listener dilemmas that show how emotional unavailability...
19 Touko 32min

263. Subtle Lies People Tell in Early Dating & How To Spot A "Dogfish" w/ The Dating Detectives
I'm chatting with Hanna Anderson and Mackenzie Foltz, the co-hosts of The Dating Detectives, a podcast that combines real PI work with deeply ethical storytelling about people who got conned in love. ...
15 Touko 53min

262. When You Don’t Feel Attracted Right Away (How Long To Wait)
In this episode, I'm covering how attraction actually works when you're dating for a long-term relationship, from how to know if you're attracted to someone and what's "enough," to how long to give it...
12 Touko 42min

261. Kids vs Childfree: Dating When You're Unsure or Mismatched w/ Keltie Maguire
I'm chatting with Keltie Maguire, a life coach who specializes in helping people navigate the kids-or-child-free decision — a topic we've never covered on this show before. After spending years as a f...
8 Touko 59min

259. The 5 Stages of Dating & Why Most People Don't Make It to Commitment w/ Amy Chan
I'm chatting with Amy Chan, relationship expert, retreat founder, and author of the brand-new book Unsingle, about why most people are just a few strategic adjustments away from finding their match. W...
1 Touko 50min



















