Episode four: Love as an End Point

Love as an End Point.

Do you ever feel that you’re rushing to love? That love is where you need to get to, it’s a means to an end - without even realising that’s what you’re doing?

This seems to be the answer to a lot of questions as to;

How do I know if they’re the one?

When will I find the one?

Slow down and enjoy the process of getting to know someone, and then you’ll know. Love is a journey, not a tick-box on a list.

E N J O Y I N G your now, and if you’re not, then switch it up. Do things you enjoy, BE the person you enjoy being. Enjoy yourself. (Trying to find) Love isn’t the means or the end. It’s a journey. How well do you know this version of yourself? Probably not as well as you think if you’re putting pressure on yourself to find love. It’s getting to know someone, enjoying the places you go, finding new cafes, new picnic spots, putting boundaries in, getting to know yourself. You can still have good vibes with someone and them not be the person for you. It’s about listening to yourself, not rushing yourself.

It’s the process, it’s the feeling, it’s the journey, and it won’t always be about love - because not everyone you meet will you love, friends, romantic partners, and that doesn’t mean you’re failing, it’s a part of the journey.

I am chatting with the lovely Chloe, who is a pilates coach and passionate dancer, about the approach to love and how we can really find what is right for us. Chloe comes out with a jaw-dropping explanation of how we can rush love, one that makes you really take a step back and think about your approach and where you are, right now. Chloe and I were having a chat after class and I just had to hit that record button, to share this insightful and gorgeous chat we were having.

Enjoy peapods! (I don't know that that name will stick).

(No cats were harmed in the making of this episode.)