The ultimate revenge: The psychological power of being unbothered

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Your compulsion to argue, get the last word, or make someone "pay" for what they did to you is a projection. You think, "If I were in their shoes, I would've never done that."

Well you're not in their janky Crocs.

In this episode, I'll discuss:

• Why people want to trigger you to begin with
• How to spot energy vultures
• How to pull an uno reverse on them
• Why being unbothered is the best form of revenge
• Why reacting to an energy vulture is dangerous

Timestamps:

0:00 Intro

2:49 Why people want to trigger you

6:08 A textbook example of an energy vulture

12:37 The psychological power of being unbothered

15:58 How to be unbothered

20:50 The power of ambiguity

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🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.

👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.

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