Alessia Cara Opens Up About How Death Anxiety Affects Her Relationships
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Alessia Cara Opens Up About How Death Anxiety Affects Her Relationships

Nothing good lasts. Right? In this deeply moving episode, Canadian singer-songwriter Alessia Cara joins Shan Boodram to explore the connection between intimacy, loss, and the fear of death (thanatophobia). Inspired by her song "Subside" from Love and Hyperbole, Alessia opens up about her personal journey with grief and how it shapes the way she loves and creates. Together, they dive into universal questions: How do we hold on to love while letting go of control? How does the fear of loss impact our relationships, intimacy, and even our everyday choices?Esther Perel talks about how desire and loss can sit right next to each other. This made me think about how those ideas show up in everyday relationships: the death of connection, the slow fading of intimacy, or the fear that something we’ve built might not last.When you zoom out, so much of how we attach, how we love, and even how we have sex is shaped by that deeper fear, what happens if I lose this? Or if I lose you? Or if I lose me in this?Thank You Alessia Carahttp://alessiacara.comhttps://www.instagram.com/alessiasmusichttps://www.youtube.com/@alessiacaraThanks Dame for sponsoring this episode:Dame makes products designed to enhance intimacy and connection—whether you’re with a partner or flying solo. http://dame.com/shanDame Coupon: SHAN15Join My Mailing Listhttps://www.loversbyshan.com/newsletterLovers CommunityIf you’re interested in joining the Lovers community, click here to join the waitlist:https://www.loversbyshan.com/community See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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