115: The Self-Esteem Movement Was a Political Stunt

115: The Self-Esteem Movement Was a Political Stunt

Tired of being told to just love yourself? US TOO! Today we're digging into the self-esteem movement — where it came from, why it didn't work, and what to chase instead.

In conversation, we tackle:

  • The 1980s California politician who sold self-esteem as a "social vaccine" against crime, addiction, dropouts, and welfare dependency
  • What the big 2003 research review actually found self-esteem delivers (spoiler: feeling good, and basically nothing else)
  • Why the most aggressive people tend to have high self-esteem, not low and what "threatened egotism" has to do with the angry men in power right now
  • How "you are your only limitation" sets people up to fail and then blame themselves
  • Why self-esteem is a flimsy thing to build a life on and what self-worth and self-compassion do instead
  • The permission slip: you don't have to like yourself to have the thing you want


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136: Why Stress is The #1 Issue In Relationships & What To do About It with Liz Earnshaw

136: Why Stress is The #1 Issue In Relationships & What To do About It with Liz Earnshaw

When did having a full life become having a life that's impossible to manage? And why are we blaming our partners for problems that are actually rooted in the overwhelming amount of stress we're all c...

10 Marras 51min

135: Our Hot Takes

135: Our Hot Takes

Listen as we explore our hot takes on ... Why adult love shouldn’t be unconditional  Our real take on child-free flights Are influencers the problem, or is it our internalized misogyny toward female-d...

3 Marras 38min

134: Sam's Brother Died: Reckoning with Grief

134: Sam's Brother Died: Reckoning with Grief

Sam's brother, Alex, died and she shares her experience of the ups and downs of grief since it happened.In conversation, we tackle: The messy middle of grief that nobody really talks about (when the i...

27 Loka 36min

131: When Birth Trauma Changes Your Family Plan with Kayleigh Summers

131: When Birth Trauma Changes Your Family Plan with Kayleigh Summers

In this episode Amanda sits down with Kayleigh Summers, to discuss birth trauma, grief, having one child and so much other nuance. Kayleigh’s story is about grief, acceptance, and discovering that the...

20 Loka 45min

133: The “Traditional” Family Never Actually Existed

133: The “Traditional” Family Never Actually Existed

Tired of hearing that “the way things used to be” was somehow better? A lot of what we romanticize as tradition is actually a tiny blip in history—and women have been paying the price for it.In conver...

13 Loka 57min

132: Cornell 7 & R*pe Culture

132: Cornell 7 & R*pe Culture

What does accountability look like when the systems meant to provide it don't? In this episode, we're talking about the Cornell fraternity case and the culture around it, including why we keep having ...

6 Loka 54min

131: What If Your Friends Actually Like You? with Blake Blankenbecler

131: What If Your Friends Actually Like You? with Blake Blankenbecler

When did friendship become something we have to optimize? In this episode, Amanda sits down with friendship specialist Blake Blankenbecler to talk about why we’re overthinking our friendships—and how ...

29 Syys 50min

130: What Nobody Says About Adult Sibling Relationships & Birth Order

130: What Nobody Says About Adult Sibling Relationships & Birth Order

In this episode we're getting into the pressure to be best friends with your sibling, why forcing it backfires, and why it's okay if you just don't like yours.In conversation, we tackle: Why Sam spent...

22 Syys 29min

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