251: Why He Goes Quiet When She Brings Up the Past — And What Actually Helps

251: Why He Goes Quiet When She Brings Up the Past — And What Actually Helps

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use?

Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornographyhttps://stopporn.info/

Have questions you want me to address on future podcast episodes?

Email me here:

sam@healingcouples.org

Episode show notes:

She brings it up. He goes quiet. She ends up more alone than before she said anything — and she's starting to wonder if she should stop bringing it up at all.

If that's where you are, this episode is for you. Both of you.

What looks like him not caring is almost always something else entirely — a shame wound that fires so fast he loses his footing before he can respond.

And what looks like her being too intense is often just pain that's been waiting a long time to be heard. The cycle covers her real hurt before it ever gets a chance to reach him. And that's what keeps both of them stuck.

This episode walks through what's actually happening on both sides, why her pain deserves to be fully seen, and what both of you can do — starting now — to break the pattern.

Tämä jakso on lisätty Podme-palveluun avoimen RSS-syötteen kautta eikä se ole Podmen omaa tuotantoa. Siksi jakso saattaa sisältää mainontaa.

Jaksot(250)

252: Why Talking Through Her Triggers Never Seems to Help — Here How to Do It Correctly

252: Why Talking Through Her Triggers Never Seems to Help — Here How to Do It Correctly

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stoppor...

18 Kesä 19min

250: When Willpower and White Knuckling Urges Fail, Do This

250: When Willpower and White Knuckling Urges Fail, Do This

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stoppor...

4 Kesä 15min

249: 7 Things To Have In Your Plan to Quit Pornography Before 2026 is Over

249: 7 Things To Have In Your Plan to Quit Pornography Before 2026 is Over

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stoppor...

28 Touko 18min

248: Pornography Addiction Destroys Her Self Image. Here's How to Rebuild It

248: Pornography Addiction Destroys Her Self Image. Here's How to Rebuild It

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stoppor...

14 Touko 19min

247: The Hidden Reason That Causes Dishonesty (And How to Resolve It)

247: The Hidden Reason That Causes Dishonesty (And How to Resolve It)

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stoppor...

7 Touko 23min

246: How to Address Her Anxiety and Hypervigilance After Betrayal From Pornography Addiction

246: How to Address Her Anxiety and Hypervigilance After Betrayal From Pornography Addiction

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stoppor...

30 Huhti 15min

245: She Can't Explain Why She Doesn't Feel Safe. This Is How You Find Out.

245: She Can't Explain Why She Doesn't Feel Safe. This Is How You Find Out.

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stoppor...

23 Huhti 16min

Suosittua kategoriassa Yhteiskunta

olipa-kerran-otsikko
seitseman
siita-on-vaikea-puhua
ihme-ja-kumma
i-dont-like-mondays
hupiklubi
uutiscast
sita
antin-palautepalvelu
poks
kaksi-aitia
mamma-mia
gogin-ja-janin-maailmanhistoria
yopuolen-tarinoita-2
kolme-kaannekohtaa
rss-palmujen-varjoissa
rss-haudattu
kummitusjuttuja
aikalisa
mystista