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Charisma Is Overrated: Why Leading Last Builds Real Influence

In this episode, Kevin sits down with Marine officer, author, and founder of Parent Child Connect, Olaolu Ogunyemi, to explore a powerful leadership tension.

In a world that celebrates charisma, authority, and strong personalities, Olaolu argues that real influence begins somewhere else. It begins with connection.

From becoming a father at 19 to leading Marines at 22, Olaolu’s journey reshaped his understanding of leadership, insecurity, vulnerability, faith, and trust. He shares why “lead last” is more than a slogan. It is a discipline. A posture. A way of building environments where people feel seen, safe, and understood.

This conversation is about parenting, leadership, mentorship, and the kind of inner growth that changes the way you show up everywhere.

Key Takeaways

Connection builds trust faster than charisma
Leadership starts with self awareness
Insecurity can be fuel or sabotage
Mentorship changes life trajectories
Parenting and leadership sharpen each other
Budgeting your time is budgeting your influence
Faith grounds decision making under pressure

Guest Bio

Olaolu Ogunyemi is a U.S. Marine Officer, award winning children’s book author, mentor, and founder of Parent Child Connect.

He is the author of Crow From the Shadow, Billy Dipper’s Time to Shine, and Horace the Horsefly, and is currently writing a leadership book titled Lead Last.

His work centers on building trust driven relationships rooted in discipline, faith, and intentional connection.

Connect with Olaolu Ogunyemi

Website: https://parent-child-connect.com

Amazon:https://www.amazon.com/author/olaolu_ogunyemi

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/olaolu-ogunyemi-465ba453

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/olaolu.ogunyemi/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCCcR7d3yzZXfzcBfxveyP-g

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