Ex Pornstar: Why You Should Stop Watching Porn - Stirling Cooper | #42

Stirling Cooper is one of the world's most famous male adult actors. Having now left the field, he teaches men how to perform better in the bedroom as well as delving into relationship and dating advice. Today, in a conversation filled with humour, debate and a wealth of information, we discuss it all. Stirling's YouTube: @stirlingcooperStirling's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stirlingcooper/My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/elliotbewick/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@elliotbewickX: https://x.com/elliotbewickCHAPTERS:00:00 The biggest perspective shifter from being a p*rn star02:24 How kinky are people in real life?07:49 The psychology of what men find attractive14:33 They’re pushing more extreme types of p*rn17:40 Why I stepped away from p*rn21:20 Why you should stop watching p*rn24:00 Men are more objectified than women, and women objectify themselves30:31 Women don’t know how to seduce men anymore34:16 What does your girlfriend think of your old lifestyle?38:16 Do you regret doing p*rn?41:05 Bonnie Blue and the outrage industry48:21 How to have good s*x with your long term partner52:00 The man should lead the relationship1:01:19 Elliot pushes back - shouldn't leadership be situational?1:09:36 Men need to be better, but women need to drop their superficial standards1:18:28 I completely changed my mind on polygyny1:24:36 Is having multiple partners a sign of poor self discipline?1:34:46 Wrapping upABOUT THE NEXT GENERATION: In a world saturated by social media and marked by skyrocketing rates of anxiety, depression, and ADHD among Gen Z, young people are growing up in a landscape of chaos and contradiction. While protests swell in city streets and activists hurl soup at famous artworks to demand climate action, a quieter crisis unfolds within - the mental and emotional battles faced by a generation trying to make sense of it all.The Next Generation is hosted by 20-year-old Elliot Bewick, offering a raw and honest look at the world through the eyes of those living in it. Bringing together insight from professionals and young people on the ground, this podcast isn’t here to complain or chase clout. It’s here to bend the arc of the modern world towards solutions, truth and a love for the beautiful adventure of life itself.