Stigma Shakers30 Heinä 2023

People Pleaser Recovery: The Stigma of Saying No with Natalie Lue

Natalie Lue is an author, artist, and creator of one of the longest running self-help blogs in the world, Baggage Reclaim, and The Baggage Reclaim Sessions podcast. The England-born, Ireland-raised author helps people understand how their emotional baggage is interfering with their ability to live their lives happily and authentically. Natalie’s authored five books, including Mr Unavailable and the Fallback Girl and The Joy of Saying No (Jan 2023, HarperCollins). Her advice has been featured in the New York Times, Forbes, NPR, USA Today, and the BBC, among many others. Natalie lives in Caterham, Surrey, on the edge of south London with her husband, two daughters, and cockapoo.

Description:

Are you still playing a role you learned in childhood to please others, such as the Good Girl/Guy, the Overachiever, or the Helper? Do you save the word no for emergency situations only? Are you always putting others’ needs above yours even at the expense of your mental and physical health? Are you unable to deliver a guilt-free no even when you desperately want to establish a healthy boundary? If so, you are not alone. The Joy of Saying No is your ticket out of toxic patterns and into healthy relationships and experiences that foster more love, care, trust and respect.

Topics:

In this episode, Ally and Natalie discuss:

The 5 styles of people pleasing
What is the social stigma around saying “no”?
The dangers of becoming a “yes” culture?
What motivates our decisions to constantly please
Is “FOMO Fever” harming our “no’s”?

If you love this episode, please share and leave a review — let’s smoke out stigma and make truth-telling the next biggest trend!

Follow:

You can find Natalie on Instagram @natlue or via her website www.natalielue.com, and long running blog and podcast how, Baggage Reclaim

If you love this episode, please share and leave a review — let’s smoke out stigma and make truth-telling the next biggest trend!

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