S4E5 - How to Heal and Find Your Confidence Again with Beth Fischer

Once you've decided enough is enough, and it's time for a new life, it's just a matter of finding the path to recovery. That path starts today with our guest, Beth Fischer, back for round 2! Beth is a betrayal trauma specialist and the new head of our Powerful Partners Program. She has authored an ebook, has online self-guided courses, and coaches betrayed wives in group and individual settings. In this episode, we're going to dive deeper into what women can do to uncover betrayal and how to start healing.

Whether you are a woman looking for help or a man seeking support, you need to tune into Beth's story to understand how porn affects your family.

[00:01 - 03:33] How to Do Confrontation Right

Confrontation is the only option for women to find the truth
Confront in a public place - ideally in front of a specialist/counselor
Anger and denial is the first red flag

[03:34 - 12:24] How to Heal and Find Your Confidence Again

Beth shares more of her story of uncovering betrayal
Stepping out of detective mode and shifting into recovery mode
Building your own self-esteem up again - healing yourself first
Couples usually want to save their marriage but don't know how
The significant other needs to be ready - it takes everything you have
The woman needs to put boundaries in place
Goals vs. outcomes - You need to tie your healing to a strong "why"

[12:25 - 23:50] How to Learn How to Save Your Marriage

Decide you want a new life - resources for support below
Going from powerless to powerful
"You are designed for accomplishment…"
You can't do it alone but with help, you CAN do it
Attaching outcomes to your goals

[23:51 - 26:07] That's a Wrap!

Beth's last words to wives - get to a place of peace
Wives, it's not your fault
How to reach out to Beth - links below
"You were designed for accomplishment, engineered for success, and endowed with the seeds of greatness." - Zig Ziglar


Powerful Quotes:

"Once you get onto the other side of the fears, you become confident." - Beth Fischer

"Most couples want to save their marriages, they just don't know how… If they're willing to do whatever it takes, then there is healing." - Beth Fischer

"Once you decide that you want a new life then it's just a matter of finding the path." - Beth Fischer

Resources Mentioned:

Book a call with Beth https://appointment.yourfamilyneedsyou.com/booking-page761614961828862051
Pain to Power Program - https://app.mastermind.com/masterminds/28330
Free Guide to Faster Healing - https://bkascheres.mastermind.com/masterminds/23017

Connect with the Powerful Partners Program at https://yourfamilyneedsyou.com/ - healing done together.

If you're looking to break your online sex addiction and live a life of integrity, go to https://solo.to/powerfuleric and let's keep the conversation going!

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