Empathy: The Antidote to Contempt
We just spent two episodes looking at contempt—the number one predictor of divorce. One of the clearest takeaways is this: empathy and contempt cannot live in the same room.When contempt is operating,...
19 Elo 33min
How to Build a Contempt-Free Marriage (it's the #1 predictor of divorce!)
Last week we named the problem: contempt is addictive, corrosive, and the #1 predictor of divorce. This week we take up the harder question—how do we actually walk away from it?We open with an honest ...
12 Elo 29min
The Addiction of Contempt
In this episode, we unpack one of the most destructive forces in modern relationships: contempt.Drawing from Arthur Brooks’ book Love Your Enemies, we explore why contempt is not just a communication ...
29 Heinä 31min
Breaking the Silent Treatment: How to End the Silence and Reconnect in Your Marriage
We’ve all heard (or said) those loaded words: “We need to talk.” For most of us, they immediately trigger defensiveness and dread. But what happens when conversations stop altogether? In this replay e...
22 Heinä 24min
Defensiveness Is a Self-Esteem Problem (And How to Fix It)
Most of us get defensive without even realizing it — and it’s one of the fastest ways connection breaks down in marriage. In this episode, we explore why defensiveness is actually a self-esteem issue ...
16 Heinä 30min
How Adapting to Trauma Wires Us for Shame
This is part two of our shame series. Be sure to listen to last week's episode for an introduction into shame and how it relates to self-esteem.In this episode, we go deeper into the real reason shame...
8 Heinä 29min
The Shame Cycle That’s Hurting Your Marriage
Most of us are walking around with a relationship to ourselves that is pretty dysfunctional — and we don’t even realize it. We bounce back and forth between shame and grandiosity, sometimes minute by ...
2 Heinä 25min
