S6 Episode 35: The Five Stages of Betrayal Recovery Every Coach Needs to Know with Dr Debi Silber

This episode explores how betrayal affects mental, emotional, and physical well-being in ways many people don’t recognize. Debi Silber joins Claire Pedrick to share her research on betrayal as a distinct trauma and explains the five stages of betrayal recovery, from shock to rebirth.

We also discuss post-betrayal syndrome, how betrayal can disrupt trust and identity, and why true healing requires rebuilding the self—not just repairing a relationship. If you work with clients, this conversation will help you better recognize unhealed trauma and guide deeper transformation.

Key Learnings:

• Betrayal creates a unique trauma response that affects mind and body
• Post-betrayal syndrome can last for years if left unaddressed
• The five stages of recovery offer a clear path to healing
• Coaches should not rush clients through the healing process
• Rebuilding identity is essential for lasting recovery

Resources & Links:

• UnStuck: Moving Beyond Betrayal to Freedom
• The PBT Institute
• Trust Again - Book

If this episode resonated with you, visit The PBT Institute to learn more about betrayal recovery and share this episode with someone who needs hope and healing.

Contact:

• Contact Debi through Linked In https://www.linkedin.com/in/debisilber/
• Contact Claire by emailing info@3dcoaching.com or join our coaching community where you can talk with other listeners.

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Keywords:

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