Perfectionism Rewired2 Joulu 2020

How To Say No (while being kind)

Are you saying yes out of obligation? Do you really want to say no but also don't want to make people upset? Discover why attempting to please others at your own expense is never sustainable, and what you can do instead to put your real desires first. I’m showing you why saying no feels challenging, how putting yourself chronically last is not loving and how being a person of integrity requires saying no.

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Inside This Episode On Saying No:

Why we say yes when we don’t want to. + how to nicely say no
How to rewire saying yes out of obligation and respond in alignment with what's important to YOU
The sneaky expectations that exist when you're operating from a people-pleasing framework
What to ask yourself to know if it a sacred no or something to say yes to
How to say no to family and people you love.
Alternatives and different ways of saying no you can start using today.

Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

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