What happens when you fall in love with the idea of someone.đź’”

What happens when you fall in love with the idea of someone.đź’”

Ever found yourself falling for someone before you even really knew them? In this episode, we’re unpacking what happens when you fall in love with the idea of someone rather than who they truly are.


We talk about mixed signals, creating stories in our minds, romanticising potential, and why it’s so easy to fill in the gaps with our own expectations. We also dive into the disappointment that comes when reality doesn’t match the version we’ve imagined—and how to tell the difference between genuine connection and wishful thinking.


As always, we share real-life experiences, unpack a listener dilemma, and have an honest conversation about heartbreak, healing, and learning to see people for who they are, not who we hope they’ll become.


If you’ve ever caught yourself wondering, “Was I in love with them… or just the version of them I created?” this episode is for you.


🎙️ Grab a coffee, get comfortable, and join us for another Debrief.

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Debrief Confessions | Girls’ Night In & Everything In Between 🎀

Debrief Confessions | Girls’ Night In & Everything In Between 🎀

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The Loneliness Nobody Talks About | Why We Feel Alone Even When We’re Not

The Loneliness Nobody Talks About | Why We Feel Alone Even When We’re Not

Have you ever been surrounded by people and still felt completely alone?You have friends. You have family. You have a group chat. You’re scrolling through Instagram, seeing everyone’s birthdays, brunc...

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What Does Forgiveness Really Look Like? | Grace, Guilt & Boundaries

What Does Forgiveness Really Look Like? | Grace, Guilt & Boundaries

Forgiveness sounds simple… until you’re the one who has to live it.In this episode, we unpack what forgiveness really looks like in real life. Does forgiving someone mean giving them the same access t...

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Choosing Each Other | The Effort Behind Lasting Friendships 👯🏾

Choosing Each Other | The Effort Behind Lasting Friendships 👯🏾

Friendships don’t stay strong by accident—they grow through intention.This week on The Debrief, we’re talking about something we don’t hear enough about: how to keep the spark alive in your friendship...

20 Heinä 48min

The Uncomfortable Truth | Conversations on Racism & Microaggressions

The Uncomfortable Truth | Conversations on Racism & Microaggressions

Some conversations are uncomfortable but they’re also necessary.This week on The Debrief, we’re talking about racism and the everyday microaggressions that so many people experience but often feel una...

13 Heinä 58min

Three Weeks Apart | Priscah’s Travel Catch-Up & Everything In Between💕

Three Weeks Apart | Priscah’s Travel Catch-Up & Everything In Between💕

Three weeks apart and we’ve got a LOT to catch up on! 🎙️✨This week, we’re doing what we do best—a real-life debrief. Priscah is finally back from spending three weeks in Kenya with her family, so we’...

6 Heinä 48min

The Debrief Friendship Edition | Who’s most likely to?

The Debrief Friendship Edition | Who’s most likely to?

How well do you really know us? 👀 This week we’re putting our friendship to the test with a fun game of Who’s Most Likely To? From the most chaotic friend to who’s most likely to ghost the group chat...

29 Kesä 47min

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