S3E33 Unwinding Stuck Patterns: Rewriting What Childhood Taught us About Love

Friends,

My guest in this episode, Audye Gonzalez grew up in a small town, the daughter of divorced parents, raised by a mother whose love came with conditions she spent years trying to name. Today she's the creator of the "Still Stuck" workbook, and she's spent her career helping adult daughters of narcissistic mothers recognize the five trauma patterns that keep showing up in relationships, and everyday life.

In this conversation, Audye and I talk about what it's like to grow up as the child who adapts instead of the child who's allowed to just be. We get into the specific moment she realized her marriage was echoing her childhood, the first boundary she ever set and what it cost her, and why she still doesn't have a clean answer on forgiveness.

If you've ever wondered why certain relationships feel like you're back in an old role you thought you'd outgrown, this one's for you.

Audye's Links:

Website: https://audyegonzalez.com

Instagram: https://instagram.com/coach.audye.gonzalez

Workbook: https://audyegonzalez.com/pages/still-stuck/

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