282. "It's scary to want things." How to stop people pleasing and attract what you actually want, with my client Jackie

Jackie was burnt out to a crisp. She was in a job she felt trapped in, because the story was that she had to be of service no matter how she felt. She had taken a sabbatical that was supposed to be two or three months, and it took her a couple of months just to relax. She came back and was immediately depressed. She couldn't see the forest through the trees. She had no vision. She just wanted to lay down.

She also knew she was a background person who wanted to be a main stage person, and she couldn't say that out loud without shame about abandoning her community.

Inside Episode 282 of The Feminist Dating Show, Jackie share your story of how she quit people pleasing as her default inside Main Character Era Mastermind (formerly Main Character Energy Mastermind), and what happened in the six months after. She left the job. She started her own company. She moved abroad, got the apartment she wanted in Edinburgh, and started dating with a lot more freedom.

Inside episode 282:

→ The difference between rest that hides burnout and rest that heals the burnout

→ How the skillset of self-trust changed Jackie's dating experience for the better.

→ The micro inflection points where your brain wants to dress rehearse tragedy instead of claiming that it's working, and how to catch yourself and redirect toward the best case scenario.

→ How Jackie built a self-care action plan she runs the second she notices herself spinning, instead of waiting until she's already spiraled

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