Love Over Algorithms: Raising Kids Who Choose Connection Over Screens with Dr. Nicki Martin

Love Over Algorithms: Raising Kids Who Choose Connection Over Screens with Nikki Martyn

Screens aren't just competing for our children's attention—they're competing for their relationships. And while many parents focus on limiting screen time, what if the real solution isn't found in stronger rules, but in stronger connections?

In this episode of The Child Psych Podcast, psychologist Tania Johnson sits down with parenting educator and author Nikki Martin to discuss her new book, Love Over Algorithms. Together, they explore how today's digital world is shaping our children, why technology struggles are often relationship struggles, and how parents can create homes where connection is more compelling than the endless pull of the algorithm.

Nikki introduces practical, research-informed tools that help families move beyond constant battles over devices. From the Love Loop and the L.O.V.E. Method to the power of the Pause Moment, she shares simple strategies that foster emotional safety, trust, and healthy technology habits without relying on shame, fear, or endless punishment.

This conversation offers a refreshing perspective for parents who want to raise digitally healthy children while protecting what matters most—the parent-child relationship.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• Why technology challenges are often rooted in relationship, not just screen time.
• The difference between the Dopamine Loop and the Love Loop, and why connection changes everything.
• How to use the L.O.V.E. Method during everyday screen-time struggles.
• Why the Pause Moment can completely change difficult interactions.
• How narrating your own technology use helps children develop healthy digital habits.
• What it means to move from control to trust using the Three Cs of Consent.
• Practical ways to create a home where children naturally choose connection over constant scrolling.
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Whether you're introducing your child's first device or navigating daily battles over phones, gaming, or social media, this episode will leave you with practical tools and renewed confidence to raise children who thrive in a digital world—without sacrificing connection along the way. Dr. Nikki Martyn is a parenting educator, speaker, and author of Love Over Algorithms. Passionate about helping families navigate the digital world with confidence, she equips parents with practical, relationship-first strategies that foster healthy technology habits, emotional connection, and resilience in an age of constant distraction.

To learn more about Nikki or to purchase Love Over Algorithms, click here.

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