Midlife by Human Design: Reinvention, Purpose, Perimenopause, Wellness, & Mindset for Midlife Women21 Syys

132. What If You Don't Actually Want to Change Your Life? How to Tell the Difference Between True Desire and What's Underneath for your Midlife Reinvention

You want to quit your job. Leave your relationship. Move somewhere warm. Start a business. Change your body. Blow up your life and start over.

And maybe you really do need a big change.

But before you make one, there's another question worth asking: What do you actually want to feel?

In this episode, Lori Lisai explores the underlying desires beneath those big midlife urges.

Human Design can help you sort through the desire, conditioning, and midlife chaos so you can make decisions from your own authority rather than reacting to what you think you're supposed to do.

In this episode:

The question to ask before making a major midlife change
Why "when I have X, I'll feel Y" can reveal what you're really seeking
How Human Design authority can help you discern your next move
Where conditioning may be influencing what you think you want
How to experiment with one-degree pivots
When a big change really may be necessary

The goal isn't to talk yourself out of what you want. Your desires matter. The goal is to understand what they're telling you so you can move toward the life you actually want, one decision at a time.

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131. Are You Overreacting, or Is Your Body Trying to Tell You Something? Human Design & Menopause

What if the feeling you're having is real... but it doesn't necessarily mean you need to do something about it? In Part 2 of this series on Human Design and emotional waves, Lori Lisai explores what h...

14 Syys 33min

130: Your Feelings Aren't Always the Whole Story: Midlife Decisions, Emotional Waves and Human Design Pt 1

You feel a certain way and that must mean something, right? Maybe not..exactly. Today, Lori dives into the difference between feelings and emotions, the four types of emotional waves and how to discer...

7 Syys 51min

129. Dolly Parton's Human Design: What Her Chart Can Teach Us About Midlife Reinvention

Today, Lori honors Dolly Parton by exploring several pieces of Dolly's Human Design and what they can teach us as midlife women about energy, creativity, self-trust, identity, experimentation, and wor...

31 Elo 29min

128. Who Am I Now? College Drop-off, Mothering, Human Design & Midlife Reinvention

Who are you when the role you've spent years building your life around begins to change? Midlife can bring a strange combination of grief, freedom, excitement, and uncertainty. Kids leave home. Career...

24 Elo 31min

127. How to Reinvent Yourself in Midlife--Even When There Are So Many "Reasons" Not To: Becoming the Wild Woman

Have you ever wanted to make a change in your life, but found yourself thinking about what your partner, kids, parents, friends, coworkers, or everyone else might think? Sometimes the thing standing b...

17 Elo 31min

126. The Blame Game: Midlife Shadow Work & Owning Your Sh*t: Human Design, Projection, Accountability & the Leo Eclipse

Sometimes people really are assholes. 😂 And sometimes the thing that's pissing us off about someone else is pointing directly at something we haven't wanted to look at in ourselves. As eclipse season...

10 Elo 21min

125: How Fitting In Keeps You Stuck: Aquarius North Node, Your Midlife Freak Flag and Self Confidence, and Human Design

For most of our lives, we may have believed that confidence comes from fitting in, being liked, and earning approval. We learn to tone ourselves down, hide the parts of ourselves that seem "too much,"...

4 Elo 31min