Edging Vs Ruined Orgasm-S02E50

Recorded: 6/14/2020 / Published: 9/22/2020

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1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young

-What Is A Ruined Orgasm? Why Some People Love Them + How To Try https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/ruined-orgasms By Morgan Mandriota
Some folks dream of being able to someday have an orgasm, while others get off from having their partner spoil their big O. Yep, you read that right—ruined orgasms are totally a thing that some people enjoy. If you're curious, here's what you should know about ruined orgasms before attempting to wreck your or someone else's next climax.

-What is a ruined orgasm?
"A ruined orgasm is typically a type of control play found in the BDSM community whereby the dominant person gets the submissive person highly aroused and then leaves them hanging to experience a very low-quality, low- to no-sensation type of orgasm, if any at all," explains AASECT-certified sex therapist Jenni Skyler, Ph.D., LMFT, CST. So rather than feeling a 10/10 euphoric explosion of pleasure, the sub would feel a not-so-satisfying 2/10 instead. Yay.

-Ruined orgasms can happen by accident.

-What ruined orgasms feel like.

-How to give or have a ruined orgasm:
1. Ensure you have consent.

2. Agree upon a safe word.

3. Do your research.

4. Focus on teasing your partner.

5. Stop all stimulation prior to climax.

-Ruined orgasm versus edging.
There's a pretty clear difference between ruined orgasms and edging, which involves getting right up to the point where you're about to orgasm, stopping temporarily, and then...

Last but not least on the list of perks, ruined orgasms can even help people with penises ...

So whether you're potentially into the power play, pain, or twisted pleasure of it all, try having your next orgasm ruined. Who knows? You might be way more into it than you expect.

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