(Rewind): How to Make Them CHASE YOU Without “Playing It Cool”
We’ve all been told that we should never come on too strong, and that playing it cool is the best way to get someone interested. But how much interest is the right amount to show in the early days of dating? If we show too much interest, we worry we’ll lose all our “power,” but if we show too little, they may not even realize we’re interested. In today’s Rewind episode, I share 5 tips on how to approach this in the early stages of dating so you can not only show the right amount of interest, but also encourage the same in the other person. --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
28 Maalis 18min
289: How To Overcome Your Biggest Dating Insecurities
In this episode, we dive deep into the biggest challenges people face in dating — from rejection and insecurity to feeling like the odds are stacked against you. Whether you feel stuck due to age, lack of experience, body image, or financial worries, this episode is packed with reframes, real-life listener questions, and practical mindset shifts to help you get out of your own way and start moving forward with confidence. PLUS: A special interview with Lewis Howes on handling overwhelm, emotional regulation, and why taking imperfect action is the key to growth in both life and love. ✨ Main topics covered: How to reframe limiting stories that are holding you back in dating Dating with insecurities around age, experience, weight, or finances Listener questions answered with real advice for building confidence How to stop pre-rejecting yourself and “take yes for an answer” Lewis Howes on emotional regulation, handling pressure, and showing up without perfection Fun “Instant Reframe” segment to turn common dating obstacles into positives 👉 Want help reframing what’s holding you back? Ask Matthew AI here: Askmh.com 🎟️ Grab your early bird tickets for the MH Retreat here: MHRetreat.com ——— 📩 Got a question or feedback? Email us at: podcast@matthewhussey.com 🎧 Subscribe for more weekly episodes and practical dating advice! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
26 Maalis 1h 17min
(Matt Monday): Stop Chasing Your ‘Type’ & Start ATTRACTING Your PERSON
You may have an idea of your perfect partner—the person who feels like the missing piece you’ve been searching for. When you finally meet someone who appears to tick all your boxes, you tell yourself, “This is it—the search is over!” But is that really what makes someone right for you? What if that person rejects you? In this episode, I show the TRUTH about compatibility in a relationship and what really makes someone “The One,” so that you never obsess over the wrong person again. --- ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in One Powerful Weekend. Learn More About my Weekend Retreat at → http://www.MHWeekendRetreat.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
24 Maalis 15min
(Rewind): The UNEXPECTED Way to Make Them Want MORE With You
We’ve been told from a very young age to “play it cool” . . . But as we grow up, we realize that when we feel we need to “play it cool” to keep someone interested, that often means we’re feeling anything but cool . . . and it usually comes from a place of insecurity or a fear of being rejected. Pretty soon, we find ourselves calibrating our conversations and contorting ourselves to meet the other person’s needs so we don’t come off as needy or a nuisance, and little by little, we start to show them that our needs can be ignored with no repercussions . . . In today’s Rewind episode, you’ll learn the best way to increase attraction and investment in a way that doesn’t diminish your value or make you feel like a nuisance simply for stating your needs. --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
21 Maalis 12min
288: Should You Date Your 'Type'? (The Truth No One Tells You)
In this episode, Matthew, Stephen and Audrey have a candid conversation about whether dating your "type" is actually helping or hurting your chances of finding love. Topics include: Are you stuck dating your "type"? How being overly attached to your type can blind you to better matches The difference between chemistry, compatibility, and long-term happiness Why your “type” might be based on old patterns or insecurities The modern fear of commitment: How people get stuck in relationship “TV shows” (endless flings) instead of committing to the “movie” (deep relationships) Practical signs you or someone else is afraid of committing The dating app “Hobby Dilemma”: How people feel pressured to showcase impressive hobbies Why not everyone fits the “hobby highlight reel” and why that’s okay --- ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in One Powerful Weekend. Learn More About my Weekend Retreat at → http://www.MHWeekendRetreat.com ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
19 Maalis 1h 12min
(Matt Monday): The 5 Biggest Red Flags in Anora
Ever had that sinking feeling that something in your relationship isn’t quite right—but you push it aside because everything seems too good to be true? We’ve all been there. And no film captures this better than Anora, this year’s Best Picture winner at the Academy Awards. If you’ve ever rushed into commitment, been swept away by grand gestures, or felt like you’re in a one-sided relationship, then you need to watch today’s episode. I break down the 5 biggest red flags that signal your relationship could be headed for disaster—and how to spot them before it’s too late. --- ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in One Powerful Weekend. Learn More About my Weekend Retreat at → http://www.MHWeekendRetreat.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
17 Maalis 11min
(Rewind): If You Want More From Someone Who’s Not Ready DO NOT CHASE Do THIS Instead
Have you ever dated someone who’s so hard to stay away from EVEN THOUGH they’re not interested in a relationship and you know you should keep your distance? It’s like a drug . . . or the worst kind of junk food . . . even after you swear it off for good, your resolve crumbles the moment they reach out. When you’re in this vulnerable position, the hope that they may change and that things could be different is what drags you back in. And before you know it, you go right back to feeling powerless—holding on to someone who’s not giving you what you need. So how can you break this cycle once and for all? Don’t miss today’s brand-new video! --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
14 Maalis 14min
287: Green Flags vs. Red Flags: How to Tell If They’re Relationship Material
Welcome to the new re-branded Love Life Podcast, where Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen bring you fresh relationship insights, answer your questions, and throw in a silly game or two every week! In this inaugural episode, we're flipping the script on dating talk—everyone loves to discuss red flags, but today, we're diving into green flags: the subtle but crucial signs that someone is truly relationship material. Topics Covered in This Episode: Why society is obsessed with red flags and how to shift focus to green flags The #1 trait that predicts long-term relationship success The power of celebrating each other's successes in a relationship Why curiosity and learning about your partner is a game-changer How to recognize real green flags vs. performative charm What to do if you’re only attracted to red flag energy Plus: We introduce Green Flag Dilemmas, a fun game that may or may not return 💡 Listener Challenge: Have an idea for what our Love Life members should be called? Email us at podcast@MatthewHussey.com with your suggestions! ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in One Powerful Weekend. Learn More About my Weekend Retreat at → http://www.MHWeekendRetreat.com ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
12 Maalis 1h 10min
