The No-Ultimatum Way to Get Him To Commit

The No-Ultimatum Way to Get Him To Commit

Here’s a little secret about men: More often than not, we want to be in a committed relationship. We just want to believe that it was our idea in the first place. That’s why putting pressure on a guy or “selling” him on the idea of exclusivity will only push him away.


In today’s episode I’m going to hand you the exact words to say to a guy to let him know you’re interested in something more serious without sounding like an ultimatum. This allows you to show your standard and send the subtle message that if he doesn’t make up his mind he risks losing you forever. Chances are, after this talk, HE’LL be the one asking YOU for the commitment. (He’ll only think it’s all his own idea!)

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