The Mel Robbins Podcast18 Joulu 2023

Why Do I Love the Way That I Love: The 4 Attachment Styles Explained

Why do you love the way that you love?

How do you have the best relationships of your life (including the one with yourself)?

Today, Mel sits down with expert in attachment theory Thais Gibson to explain the framework to improve any relationship in your life.

Her work on the subconscious mind and personal transformation will empower you to set better goals and have happier and healthier relationships.

Topics discussed include:

How to have secure and healthy relationships (including your relationship with yourself)
What your “attachment style” means and the 4 types
How your subconscious mind drives a lot of what you do
What love is supposed to look like
How your attachment style impacts your personal goal-setting
The biggest limiting beliefs from childhood (which one is yours?)
How to figure out your attachment style
How to make your attachment style “secure”
The difference between “core wounds” and “core needs”
The 2 things you did in childhood that made you a people-pleaser
How to feel less anxious and overwhelmed in relationships
How your fear of abandonment shows up in your relationships
The one question to ask yourself before you argue with your partner
What your new love interest needs if they have a hard time trusting
How to reprogram your subconscious mind for healthier relationships

You can purchase Thais’s latest book, Learning Love: Build the Best Relationships of Your Life Using Integrated Attachment Theory, here: https://a.co/d/i2Ae9vG

Follow Thais Gibson:

Instagram: instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool

YouTube: youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool

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Check out my book, The High 5 Habit: https://a.co/d/g1DQ8Pt

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